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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave

We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.

About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!

Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.

About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.

My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.

Banners here also!

Sunday, April 03, 2011

So much to learn

i just read something that struck a cord with me. In a blogger's profile, this person wrote that blogs are typically written by very experienced submissives or people who write very sexually explicit material. Seeing that i don't write a lot of explicit material i would have to put myself in the first category. The only thing that is experienced about me would be my age, however haha.

i have had my journal for a while and in bloggersfield, i've had it quite a while, comparatively. But compared to real life vanilla marriages we haven't really been married for that long. This November it will be 8 years and we'll have been together for 10 years. Don't get me wrong, i am not trying to discredit myself. i just want to give credit where credit is due. Every. Single. Person. Who writes a blog save none, still has much to learn about who they are as a slave/submissive/Dom/Domme or Switch.

Some people are natural teachers, some are awesome sponges. Both are essential for this process to work. The best part is reading blogs from people of all types, brand new, a little more experienced and those who have been around for a long time. There is so much to learn every day from one another. This is a perfect example, i love the reminder that i might have a few years under my belt... and a few too many donuts =p, but i still have so much to learn.

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure


  1. Hmmm I, too, think the blogger was way off mark with that generalisation. I, certainly, am completely green and new, and write my blog to help in my voyage of discovery. And I follow a large number of blogs that are very much on the same course. And, if, 10 years down the road, I am not still learning and exploring, I won't be blogging!

    As you say, there is so much to learn every day

  2. i'm not sure that i would say she was off the mark. i just think that it's important to remember we're never done learning from each other. i didn't want her to sell herself short, being new to the lifestyle doesn't make her any less of a resource than any one of us. Just like i was saying i didn't want to discredit myself, i didn't want her to discredit herself. =)

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  4. Thank you for writing this. I am finding more and more each day, that I can learn from everyone, and sometimes they even learn something from me! In the very very beginning, however, I was finding it extremely hard to relate to most blogs. It just wasn't relevant to me at that time, and I couldn't imagine being in a place yet where it would be so. As time goes on, I find it much easier, and I am more able to take away some wisdom, or think of things that might come up for the future.

  5. It was my pleasure! Thank you for reading and coming back. Just like i said in my original post, you're totally right, we can all learn from each other!