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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave

We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.

About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!

Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.

About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.

My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.

Banners here also!

Sunday, March 31, 2013

You're Never Ready

This post will be short, shorter than i want it to be because i have a lot to say and almost no time to write.  i'm not sure where to begin.  It began as a routine call that we'd gotten so many times before.  This time however, it ended the way we always knew it one day would.

Master's Dad called and said that the nursing home called and said that they were taking Master's Mom to the hospital because she was having some sort of a "spell".  i was working at the time and like i said, thought it was a routine call.  When the phone rang five minutes later and it was the nursing home, saying Master's Dad shouldn't be alone, we knew it wasn't going to be anything routine.

Only a few hours later we were all sitting in the ICU, she was surrounded by her kids, even her son made it in from 900 miles away in only a few short hours.  We were holding her hands and said our goodbyes as we watched her slip away.  It doesn't matter how long she'd been sick or how many months we've been preparing for this moment, we never would have been ready.

Master is a strong Man and He'll be okay, except when He's not and when He's not, i'll be there to hold Him up.  She wasn't just my Mother in law she was my friend and i have missed having my friend since she had her stroke.  i'll miss her very much, we all will.

MD's treasure

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Formspring Question

You often mention that master makes you ask permission to use the toilet. Does he ever make you service him while you are going to the bathroom?


Master has a rule in place where if i see His cock, i am to stop what i'm doing and suck it.  That is the rule in the most basic terms.  The commode is placed immediately outside of the shower so if Master steps out of the shower, He will be completely exposed to me. =)

There have been times when i'll be sitting on the stool and He'll walk to me and have me suck on His cock for only a few seconds or a minute.  i've never actually given Him an entire blow job while using the bathroom, no.

It's my belief that He enjoys totally exposing me of any privacy in order to strip me of any or all self-consciousness.  Once i am free of my own demons i am only then able to focus on serving Him to the fullest. 

Bathroom play is not typically something that we take part in however, taking advantage of these times when i am at my most vulnerable are perfect opportunities for Him to expose that most precious "Achilles Heel".

Thanks for the question!

Sunday, March 24, 2013

March Q & A Continued

 There are quite a few questions this time around so i'll most likely separate them into two or more posts!

Q. Do you think that a slave should wear a collar? (Anon)

A. This is something that is pretty dear to my heart.  When i met Master He placed a very thin training collar on my neck and we went from there.  It wasn't until our collaring ceremony a few months later that i was allowed to wear Master's permanent collar.  Since that time i have worn His collar when at all possible, 24 hours a day.  There have of course been times when it's been removed or when we had nothing but the leather collar, He had me remove it in public settings. 

That having been said, i am of the opinion that the collar isn't just a symbol, it's an integral part of His possession and His Ownership of me.  This locked collar isn't a decoration or something by which He has adorned me.  It isn't a piece of jewelry that is meant to look pretty, it's a tool that serves multiple purposes.  Not the least of which is an opportunity for Master to mark His property in a way that has become very well recognized in the BDSM community.  It also serves as a viable option for Master to control His possession.

The collar for this slave isn't just something i choose to wear or if it might go with an outfit one day or another.  It's not a necklace or a pin or earring or anything other than what He meant for it to be.  It's a slave collar, locked on by my Owner and yes, i believe that a slave should wear a collar, however unpopular that idea might be to some in the community.

i recognize there are extenuating circumstances (allergies) that prohibit some slaves from wearing a collar but in just about every other situation, yes, i believe a slave should wear a collar. 

Thank you very much for the question! =)

Q. I love your piercings! Do you know what's next (Dave)

A. Thanks!  i really love them too!  The next one that we've talked about is an ear tunnel, that's actually the only one that has been my idea or the only one i've "asked" for!  Here's the plan:  i would like Master to re-pierce my ear to a larger gauge and then stretch to a larger tunnel.  Then we'll place a ring through the tunnel.  Hopefully then we'll get my slave-register bar-code on a tag to hang from my ear.  That's what my hope is, anyway.

There will be other things happening while the whole ear tunnel thing is going on, i am sure.  But i am usually not privy to Master's agenda, He likes to keep things a bit of a surprise so i don't worry (freak out) too much! hahaha All i know is that He wants to do the outer labia and hood but i don't know how far off those will be.

Thanks for the question! =)


Q. You've said in the past that you have to ask permission to use the bathroom, eat, get undressed, just about everything it seems. Are you allowed to use furniture?  (Kori)

A. i am allowed to use the furniture, yes.  i'll tell you though, it's something i seriously take for granted, i won't even begin to pretend that i don't.  Master has only a few times told me to sit on the floor or threatened to make me sleep on the floor and i can't remember for sure but i don't think He's ever actually made me sleep on the floor.  He has however had me sit on the kitchen floor and eat, but never the entire meal. 

i can say one thing for sure about Master, if it would mean that we didn't get to be together then He wouldn't really care for it because that would be an inconvenience for Him.  me not being on the furniture should only be a punishment for me so i believe He would only do it if it didn't affect Him in anyway.  We like being together too much for Him to banish me for a long time.

Thanks for the question! =)

Q. Do you enjoy being in bondage, and why? What are your favorite gear or positions to be bound in? How often are you kept in bondage? (Anon)

A. Yes, now i do.  Had this question come in 12 years ago i would have had a harder time with it.  Bondage has taught me how to overcome some serious fears and learn how to just breath through some things i never thought i could do.  my favorite piece of gear is probably the straight jacket although i really like the leather mits, now that i think about it, i love the mindfold or the headharness!  hahahaha Yeah i don't know.  If i had to choose one form of "bondage" i love the straightjacket/blindfold combination.  i'm also a fan of the box and a blindfold just for quiet time.

i am kept in bondage every night.  i wear ankle cuffs and a short length of chain locked between my ankles every night.  That goes on before supper and stays on until the next day before my shower.  i also wear wrist cuffs that are locked on right after supper and those also come off at the same time.  Master locks the leather collar on as soon as we're home for the day/night.

Thank you for the question! =)

That's all for today, more to come!

Thank you for the questions, keep 'em coming guys! Don't worry about March ending,  if you have a question, i am happy to answer it!

MD's treasure


Thursday, March 21, 2013

More March Q & A

This next post will be three questions from the same person who wishes to remain anonymous.

Q: Where do you get your stockings? 

A.  Master buys my stockings for me on line at StockingsHQ.  They are based in the UK and we've found that they are the best quality and have a great selection, for the price.  He orders at Christmas time and if needed in the summer.  If i'm careful (i am), then we only need to order once a year.

Q. Where do you purchase most of your shoes?

A.  This is a much more difficult question to answer.  Master and i are very frugal when shopping for shoes, not because He won't spend the money on a beautiful pair of shoes but because it's simply not necessary.  If we shop clearance racks and if we shop often that same pair of shoes that was previously $89.00 will likely be $9.00, on sale in just a few months.  To me, "clearance" doesn't mean $30.00, "clearance" means $10.00 or even less.

So to answer your question, Master buys my shoes just about anywhere, we are just very diligent in our endeavors.

This isn't to say that if one or the other of us completely falls in love with a pair of shoes, we'll splurge, more than we should!!!  Like.... these, we couldn't resist these!!! =)

Q. What size are your feet?

A.  Again not a straightforward answer, sorry.  The metal size thingy sizes my foot much smaller than i believe it really is.  Most of my shoes are a 6.5 or a 7.  However i have shoes as large as an 8 and as small as 6, i might even have a 5.5 or 8.5 in there somewhere, it's impossible to remember when you have more than 200 pairs of shoes!! =)  Shoes can't be counted on for a good solid sizing. So there you have it, my feet are pretty small, but not tiny. =)

Thank you for the questions!  There aren't too many more days in March so keep them coming!!

i hope you're all having a wonderful Thursday!

MD's treasure  

Sunday, March 17, 2013

March Q & A con't!

The following questions are from a fellow girdle lover:

Q: Do you wear a girdle every day?

A: i do yes.  The only time i might not wear a girdle would be if Master and i were spending the entire day at home working in the yard and it were close to 100 degrees outside.  That might be the exception to the rule.  There could also be a day where i'm spending an entire day in summer attire IE a swimming suit or sundress with nothing at all underneath it just romping around our property.  Those days of course are completely up to Master's discretion and are also quite rare indeed.

Q: Is it hard to get into your All-In-One?

A: This past Christmas, Master bought me a new girdle as He does every year.  He got me the same one as i requested only one size smaller!  So while i've never had a ton of trouble getting into my girdle, my new one poses quite the challenge for sure!  It's a good thing though.  The more snug it is, the more it holds me in and once it's on it's not any more uncomfortable than any of the others have ever been.  i still love this girdle just as much as i ever have, it's just a very snug fit!

Below is the link to the girdle i wear every day:

Thank you for the questions!

Happy St. Paddy's Day!

MD's treasure

Friday, March 15, 2013

Q & A

Just a reminder, this is March Q & A month!  Ask your questions through my email, in the comments section or through my Formspring. 

Thanks and have fun!

MD's treasure

Appearing Submissive

A few days ago i came across a thread on Fetlife that i thought was interesting, so i thought i would talk about it here.  i'm not a huge fan of posting on Fetlife, for various reasons not the least of which is i don't care for being attacked for having an opinion.  i feel more comfortable here, call me a coward, i don't care.  i simply don't like people getting in my face if they don't like what i have to say.  i don't mind being disagreed with or even challenged, but yeah not so much with the snark. So.... on with my post. =)

The original question was something like "Do you appear submissive?", i'm paraphrasing.

i don't believe that appearing submissive makes one appear weak or diminishes ones character in anyway.  There's nothing saying that just because you take care to show yourself in a submissive manner that you don't have just as much self respect as someone who is Dominate.  i would like to think that a submissive appearance and personality is someone who is just as imaginative, just as creative and just as fun-loving as anyone else. 

There are many ways to appear submissive and subtly show our submissiveness.  For instance, when Master puts me in charge of taking care of a task, i am careful to make sure that the person i am dealing with knows that my Husband has the final decision, should the need arise. 

my voice is a large part of how i appear to others as well as to Master.  Using loud, crass or foul language is often times a first impression.  It sends the message "hey i'm here and i want to be noticed"!! Do i want to be noticed for being independent and out of my Owners control?  Do i want to greet people in a friendly, soft yet cheerful tone?  Everything about my voice says who i am.  Yelling to Master from across an isle in a store is completely unacceptable to Him.  To Master ladies don't holler to their Owners, they speak to them properly.  Master and i have a blast and laugh all the time but there is no reason for me to yell and swearing is out of the picture, completely.

There are other ways that i show my submissiveness and these may be a bit more overt.  i never eat before He does, i defer to Him when asked questions, even in vanilla situations.  i don't believe that this makes me appear weak as i do all these things happily and with love. 

i have a strong personality and make good decisions on my own.  Master also at times will defer to me on very specific topics and shows me a great deal of respect.  i walk with my head held erect and don't slouch, all that being said, i still appear submissive.

i would love to hear your opinions! =)

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure

Saturday, March 09, 2013

March Q & A

This question comes from tranquility at tranquility-bound. =)

Q:  My questions are in regard to your recent septum piercing.  I was wondering how much it hurt, if at all, and what you need to do to care for the piercing site.
A:  The initial piercing was hardly noticeable.  The needle was in and Master had the jewelry popped in and it was over pretty quickly.  He said that i shed some tears (which is expected) but there wasn't a drop of blood to be seen.  This piercing does take some time to heal, however. i've read anywhere from 6-8 weeks for the initial healing to 6-8 months to be completely "healed". It's been pretty tender but nothing terrible and i would certainly do it over again.... Not that i had a choice the first time, right?? haha!!!
The only thing that i sure wish i could have foreseen is this cold bug!!! This is the worst possible timing for a cold, blowing my nose over and over again has been a bit of a set back, i will tell you that! =p  hehe That's one thing you have to be really careful with is blowing your nose at first and making sure your hands are clean each and every time.  They caution you not to touch the piercing unless you're cleaning it, once or twice a day.  The septum is one of the exceptions to the rule i suppose, when you have to blow your nose, you just have to be careful and cautious.

There are many wonderful  after-care sites out there for piercings.  i have always done the same thing with all my piercings and i've never had an infection.  i clean the piercing twice a day with a saline mix, similar as they describe on that site.  i also make sure that i'm really anal about cleaning my work area and my hands.  Disinfecting wipes and hand sanitizer, etc. Just don't over-clean the site and if all else fails i use the "litha method", that's my favorite "leave it the hell alone". =) Seriously, if it hurts/gets swollen/whatever, you're probably just messing with it too much! 

i am finding that with each piercing, it's getting easier.  i know what to expect, i know it's going to sting like a sunofbugger for a second and then once the jewelry is in, it'll be okay.  Those needles are sharp and if your piercer is good, you have nothing to worry about, like.... nothing! =)  Just be sure you want to deal with people looking at you funny, cause that's a sure thing! hehehe

Thanks so much for the question!!

MD's treasure

Thursday, March 07, 2013

March Q & A

I know you will submit to anything master wants. Bondage, pain, humilation. However you don't really seem to enjoy it. You just seem to tolerate it. If master loves you why would he do things to you that you don't like?

Hi there and please accept my apologies!  i should have gotten to your question a long time ago but unfortunately a cold bug got to me and i've been a bit under the weather.

You're right of course, it goes without saying that i'll submit to whatever Master desires.  Understanding how a slave's mind works is tricky indeed, i'll give you that.  The fact of the matter is my true enjoyment comes from knowing i've pleased Him in everything i do. 

Even if i might not enjoy the task at hand whatever that may be, knowing that Master Himself derives pleasure from a bondage session or tossing me into the shower and peeing on me and leaving me sit there in the cold water.  i might be uncomfortable during a spanking and cry at the top of my lungs and wish He'd stop.  But here's where the real reward is for me.  After it's all said and done, i can look down and see a deep red chain mark or maybe a pretty purple bruise from the spanking and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that i've submitted to His will, for His pleasure and been a good slave and have the marks to prove it.

Master loves me more than He loves anything in this world, He Himself isn't much of a sadist, although He is a Dom! =) Part of His job is to constantly remind me of my place and send me deeper and deeper into my submission to Him.  The only way to do that is to push me beyond anything i ever imagined i was capable of doing.  If He allowed me to dictate what i would and wouldn't do or to set limits, who would be in charge?  Master makes me do things He knows i don't like BECAUSE He loves me, not the opposite.  These things strengthen our bond and make me a better slave, in the end.

Thank you so much for the question! =)

MD's treasure

Tuesday, March 05, 2013

March Is Q & A Month!!

March is Question and Answer Month!

i forgot and lunaKM reminded me!

It's not too late though, it's quite early in the month and there is plenty of time for you to submit your questions in whatever way you choose.

You're welcome to email me at  If you send your question in an email, please let me know if you'd like your question kept confidential. If i don't hear otherwise, it will be posted here with all the rest. =)

You may also leave a question in the comments section or ask a question via  my Formspring !

i had a great time answering your questions last year so don't be shy!  =)

Have fun and ask away! ~

Peace to you,

MD's treasure

Saturday, March 02, 2013


The longer Master and i are together the more i find out that i am just seriously not at all cut out for vanilla life.  i mean sure, i do fine in mixed company and i can play games and cards hang out with vanilla people for. a. while... but when it's all said and done, i want to go home or anywhere else where i can be more comfortable. 

Don't get me wrong, i am always Master's slave, i do my best to ask permission for all the same things when we're in public as i do when we're alone.  It's just not the same and i'm not as comfortable in the vanilla world!  Just like when, "Red"  in The Shawshank Redemption, called his friend "institutionalized", well i'm "BDSMified"!  That's the way i like it too!

More and more i find myself nearly calling Master "Master" or asking for things out loud.  Last night at the grocery store, Master told me to hit the "yes" button to "OK" the transaction and i hit the "green" yes button!  i hit the right but wrong button!  So i did an absolutely average job at my task!  i looked at the checker who was a good 20 years younger than me and i said "i did a good job", while she was smiling and giggling, she certainly thought we were nuts.  In this small town, we'll be remembered because we have to go back to that grocery store as it's one of three in the town.  There is no margin for letting your hair down in this town without it getting all around, quickly... even.

Suffice it to say, i am wondering what will happen when i first wear the septum piercing down in public.  Thus far i've just worn it flipped up while around His family.  Master and i went out of town and i worn it down so it was visible and i was prepared for the looks, i wasn't disappointed. =)  People stare and if you're going to put bits of metal where they don't belong, be prepared for people to look at you funny.  When we came into our hometown though, where we were going to spend time with Master's Mom and Dad, i flipped it up so it wouldn't be seen.  i wasn't prepared to deal with them yet or rather, upset His Mom.  When i switch to a ring then it won't be able to be flipped and she'll have to get used to it, until then, i'll have some time to prepare her for the idea.

The most important thing is that Master likes it and He tells me all the time that He does.  He says it makes me look more slave-like.  i need all the help i can get sometimes.

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure    

Formspring Question

You recently mentioned that masters buddy comes over on a pretty regular basis to take pictures. Does master ever require you to have sex with other men?

Hi there,

Master's friend has been coming over every Tuesday night for as long as i've been with Master. Since i've been with Master the relationship with His buddy has evolved a bit to where He sees me naked and as you mentioned, takes pictures. To date there has been no sexual contact with him.

It's been discussed of course and should Master require it, at this point it would only be oral. Master would be interested in pursuing something along those lines with His friend but because they have been friends for so long that is just a thin line and one that have to be carefully examined before it were crossed.

Should Master ask it of me or whatever Master would ask of me, i wouldn't hesitate. It's not something i've ever done before but i'm sure it would be fun. i trust Master's judgement and i know He'd think about it before He'd ask me to do anything like that.

i know He wouldn't ask me to have sex with just any random guy though, no. He's pretty protective of His property. =)

Thank you so much for the question!