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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave

We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.

About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!

Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.

About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.

My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.

Banners here also!

Saturday, April 09, 2011

Just Be

Do you ever think that all the blogging and reading forums has sort of made us all think too much? Sometimes i just think, we think too much about our positions. We think too much and don't just "be" enough. i don't believe that submissives or slaves should be robots or doormats. What i'm saying is that i believe we've become to introspective and we just need to chill on the "what's it all about Alfie?". (i may have just really dated myself there)

Perhaps all the research and the poems and the guides and my goodness there is so much information out there on how to be a good slave, is enough already. Just do what comes naturally and listen to your Master. Stop reading for a minute, stop listening to what other men and women have to say and listen to your Master or Dom, Domme or Top... etc. etc.

Have i just said that we should all abandoned the blogs and journals and forums? Of course not. How about placing our focus back where it should be? i believe that getting a birds eye view is a great idea, looking outside yourself and outside your relationship is a wonderful idea and you should never stop learning and gathering information for education. However. There comes a time when we become so inundated with information that there is no possible way we could even begin to process even a fraction of it and it might be time to stop and smell our own relationship.

Again, i just want to stress that i don't believe that we should become robots or doormats, i think that obtaining information important and being well informed is key. i think that reading journals and being involved is always a perfect way to stay active and up to date on things. There can be a breaking point where enough is enough and people can become overly enthralled with the on line world of BDSM.

i also understand that not everyone lives this life 24/7 so you can't turn off your computer and find your Master there. i had that relationship with Master for a short while also and it's really difficult being tied to this machine. The break is good though, there is life outside, there is a sun and grass and trees. =)

Where am i going with this? Eh.. i don't know... i think my whole point was really we've spent so much time reading how to be good slaves and subs that sometimes we forget how to actually BE good slaves and subs. Get off the computer, put the book down and listen to your Master. Go be His/Her good slave and just stop thinking about everything everyone says except Him. That's what Master tells me, sometimes i just forget to "be". That's what i'll try to do today, be His everything and nothing.

Peace to you,

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