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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave

We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.

About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!

Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.

About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.

My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.

Banners here also!

Sunday, June 30, 2013

New beginnings...

OK you self-righteous pricks at Google, I've removed every single link that could possibly be considered "monetization of Adult content". Thanks for the whole four days notice too, that was mature.

For the rest of you folks that don't suck like Google, I now own It's gonna take me a few days to get it set up enough to roll out the new blog, but it's coming! Until everything is set up we'll be right here until/unless they pull the plug on us since we're so disgusting and perverted. We apologize for Google's nonsense since that's not something they're capable of. Please bear with us in this time of frustration, anger and uncertainty. - learn it, live it, love it!   :)


This Sucks

Well Master has been working on getting us a new home and we're pretty sure we have it all figured out! He's just about cross-eyed but with the short amount of time we were given, i believe He's made His decision.  As soon as everything is set up and running, we'll let you all know where we'll be.

In the mean time, who knows what blogger will do to us here or what we'll have to take down to remain on here for a while until we're ready to make the move!!  Basically all i can say is... This sucks.

i just know that they want to get rid of the riff raff and they are certainly clearing house doing it this way!  i don't want to move, i like it here and i like how my little blog looks.  i've been here for going on nine years and we had no intention of going anywhere.  Sure it might be boring to some people, but the blog has always looked just about the same with only a few changes every once in a while.  Like i said, it's boring to some people but for me, it has a sense of familiarity and comfort.  When you clicked to come here for all these years, you knew what you were going to get and you knew we'd be here.

It just stinks that we have to move by no choice of our own.  Never fear though, once we're in our new home, we'll be there and just as consistent as we've always been!

Well i am going to sign off for now, i have a hard time writing when all i can think about is the fact that we have to leave!

Peace to all of you out there going through the same thing we are!! Hugs!!!

MD's treasure

Friday, June 28, 2013

Thanks for all the ambiguity, Google!

I don't know what's going to happen to this blog in light of the asinine mass email Google sent out to anyone who says anything harsher than darn or shows anything sexier than a nun with her habit blown up to her ankle, but searching for "Master Dream's precious treasure" will always lead you to us, no matter where we end up. I'm exploring our options, and as long as this blog is still here, this is where we'll keep you updated. If this blog is yanked by the self-appointed morality police at Google, we'll post info about our new whereabouts on FetLife, Flickr and Tumblr, all of which are linked to over there. --------------->

Maybe Google will answer the thousands of emails they've gotten about what their completely ambiguous email meant, or how far they plan on taking their new found fascism, but we're not going to be holding our breath in this house, and I'm not going to completely gut this blog of all links just to appease a few pencil pushing dictators.


What Scares you Most?

The other night Master sent me an email.  It was titled "assignment".  Sometimes when i get those emails i immediately get a lump in my throat because i think it's going to be horrible.  This time i sort of got that feeling but the assignment wasn't that bad.  It sure stuck with me though, the whole idea of it has been with me ever since.

This was the assignment:

I want you to take 30 minutes and come up with a list of things that have never been done to you, things you fear I'm likely to do or make you do sooner or later, or even things I might never do, but you think are possible...things that terrify you.


That was the entire thing.  Only thirty minutes, hey not too bad.... that was my first thought.  Then it started to sink in, i had to dedicate 30 minutes to thinking about things that i knew He may do to me in the future that seriously terrify me. Umm ready, set, scream!

So once i read the email again i thought i could categorize them into things that completely terrify me and things that just mildly freak me out.

So this was my response:

Terrified of:
Hood with a breather gag.
Any other type of breathing restrictions really, like through a tube or whatever.

Things that frighten me;
Labia piercings.
Big piercings that require holes or tunnels.
Fire play.
Shave my head.
Not let me use the furniture or sleep in the bed anymore.
Take away coffee and tea.
Take away soda.
Take away specific foods that i like not just like cake and cookies but specific foods that i like such as beets because You don't like them, things like that.

i guess that's about all i can think off right off the top of my head, i'm sure i'm missing some big ones.


There are a couple on there that i should explain.  The branding is one that has always freaked me out to the core.  It's also been one that i've always thought He might actually do someday.

The piercings i only put on there because i know there will be more piercings some day and some of them will be fairly intense.  i want them, i'm just frightened of them.

Shaving my head.  Master really loves long hair, it's almost a passion of His, if you will.  However if it ever gets to a point where He doesn't care for my hair for some reason, i could see Him shaving my head completely.  That would freak me out, a lot.

i have just been thinking about this list a lot since i wrote it, i wonder what i missed..... i certainly missed a few things i'm sure...... hmmmm....

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure

Sunday, June 23, 2013

57' T-Bird

i have mentioned Master's friend who comes down to our house on Tuesday nights on many occasions.  He's the only person in our lives who knows our relationship, through and through.  He is privy to pretty much everything that we do and Master has even opened up my camming sessions to him when i am working on Tuesday nights.  The only thing Master really hasn't done is "share" me with him.  Watching me from a distance is just about all he is comfortable with and i certainly don't judge him, one way or another.  That doesn't mean that he doesn't like to watch whatever Master is willing to show!! =)

Last night Master and i went into town, as i mentioned in my last post.  We had some errands to run and Master's buddy always works late, every night of the week.  If he's not working on a project for a customer, he's working on one of his own vehicles.  So if we know he's at work and we have time (or if there are donuts!!) we stop by.  We walked into the shop and we weren't in there for much more than a few seconds when over in the last bay i spotted a  beautiful 57' Thunderbird!  It had been restored and it was really pretty.  Now, Master is NOT a car guy, to say the least. Because He's a smart Man He knows how things work but He just couldn't be less interested in "cars".  i however, do have an interest in cars.  Master knows more than i do about how they run and work but i have much more of an interest in them, in general.

There is no explanation for why i like them, i just do.  Needless to say, Master isn't fond of my fascination with vehicles and i don't go on and on about them,  i simply enjoy a pretty car.  However, when i spied this once in a life-time vehicle within my grasp, i wanted to check it out! Master's buddy was more than happy to let me because i guess if you're a guy who likes cars, you probably like to see naked girls in hot cars!  So, it was up on the hoist a bit so i hopped up there and bent over the car and leaned in to get a better view.

Because the car is a convertible i had no trouble leaning far over to check things out!  Master said STOP! i know that voice, that means it's photo op time!  His buddy came over to me and lifted my short little dress a bit more to show lots of stocking top and maybe a bit more!

It's always funny to me when i am naturally doing something and all of a sudden Master sees a picture.

Then Master had me go around the car and take a few more.  Master's buddy wanted me to get in the car and that was a struggle!  The car has a huge steering wheel and almost no clearance to get in, once i was in though, it was awesome! =)

Master took a couple more shots and it was time to get out!  i was getting nervous!!!  i was sitting in what could have easily been a $40,000 car!!

We decided that when those kinds of cars show up at the shop, we do some more photo shoots! Better ones though! =)

i hope you're all having a wonderful Sunday!

MD's treasure

Saturday, June 22, 2013


Today has been sort of a lazy Saturday.  Master and i were planning on cleaning today after a scheduled event at our work but the event was cancelled.  No one bothered to tell us of course until yesterday.  It was sort of a nice surprise not having to clean twice this week but a little notice would have been great.

Master told me to give the dog a haircut and even though i'm terrible at doing it, it needed to be done.  It wouldn't be quite so bad if the dog were a little better behaved, he's fine as long as i don't do anything he doesn't want done to him.  Then all bets are off.

Master even let me play my very favorite video game! Don't laugh!! He has an ancient Nintendo!  That's it, there are no letters or numbers or anything after it, just a Nintendo!  my very favorite game in the whole world was/is Mario, the original Mario with Duck Hunt on it.  We were talking about that game one day and He said that He "thought" He might have it.  Not only did He have it, it was in perfect condition, still in the box, opened and maybe played once or twice. He brought the machine upstairs, hooked it up and it all works like i last remember it. Even though i haven't played that game for more than 20 years, it's amazing how fast i picked up on it again.  Pretty good times.

We're going into town this evening to run a few errands and i think maybe even get a snack!

i hope you're all having a nice Saturday night. 

MD's treasure

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Wearing Master's Cum

Master has a rule that i'm sure is fairly standard among Master's and slaves.  If there is cum to drink, you don't spill a drop, i know i'm not special in this regard at all. =)

So the other morning i was giving Master a blow job and morning blow jobs never last as long as night time blow jobs! We were both into it and i knew it was feeling very good!  Before i knew it, Master surprised me and told me to sit back on my knees on the floor.  He had been lying on the bed and He quickly stood up and came all over me.  All over my neck, chest, my tummy and legs! 

Once i was covered in Master's cum He told me to rub it in, rub it all over me.  At that point, i knew it wasn't going to be washed off before we went outside to work for the day!  Master told me to wash off whatever was dripping and that was all.  i was to remain sticky and smelling like His cum until He allowed me to shower, whenever that would  be.

He told me to put on a little dress and get ready to work outside for the day.  i just knew i was going to be surrounded by gnats because they've been so bad this year.  It really wasn't as bad as i thought it might be, although i did end up getting a couple in my mouth.  Turns out i've gotten a couple in my mouth since that day too, it's just that the gnats are terrible right now and it didn't have anything at all to do with wearing Master's cum!  =)

After a while i could feel it drying but i forgot about it until the wind would pick up and i would smell it all over again.  i wasn't allowed to shower until late into the evening and while i really hate being "dirty" in any way, i wasn't in a hurry to wash Him off of me.

It was a good day.

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure

Sunday, June 16, 2013

Happy Father's Day

Just a quick Happy Father's Day post to all of you celebrating today!

i very rarely think of what my life would have been like had i known my father.  Only just a few moments ago i checked my facebook for the first time today and was caught off guard.  my sister somehow got a very old photo of my dad and posted it on my timeline as a surprise.  i believe he was camping, which was what almost all the pictures we have of him are, that or fishing.

It was a photo i had never seen before and that's very rare.  There are very few photos of him as it is and finding one that one of us kids haven't seen is nearly impossible.  The picture just struck me and made me think for the briefest of moments what it might have been like to know him.  He was gone before i was two.  Like Master always says, had anything been different or changed, we wouldn't be where we are today! =) 

To all of you who are celebrating today, i hope you have a wonderful day!

We're off in just a bit to celebrate with Master's Dad.  i'm hoping for a good day!!

Peace to you and yours!

MD's treasure

Saturday, June 15, 2013


Master and i joke all the time about 'not thinking it through'.  Saying things and not thinking about what the actual consequence might actually be!

So let me say this before anyone gets any ideas that i think i made the wrong choice or i think i should have made a different choice, nothing could be further from the truth.  i will say.... i didn't think the whole thing through....

When i came here to be with Master i knew i was leaving my entire life and everything i knew behind.  The town i left behind, while it was the only city i've ever known it's got a very high crime rate and there's nothing super special about it.  However the tiny village where i grew up, is super special and everyone knows everyone.  So i was no stranger to being around people i knew and plenty of them.  It's grown a lot but it will never lose that feeling about it.

What i didn't think through wasn't the fact that i would be leaving my family, it was that i wouldn't have anyone here.  From day one i had Master's Mom, but i've never had a friend to call up and chat with.  It just never once dawned on me i wouldn't start a new life here with friends and family.

People most generally find friends through work and seeing that i wasn't working, there weren't going to be friends for me.  Master's job never really offered friends although the one couple we met were lovely but moved away. Even though Master's Mom was usually wonderful to talk to she was still Master's Mom and i wasn't able to tell her the things friends tell friends.  For a long time i held out hope that Master's sister would befriend me but that's hopeless, it turns out she will never be someone i can call a friend.  You can't make someone like you, lol!  So that's a dead-end.  i believe she's one of those people that if i even keep trying i will continue to set myself up for disappointment that is absolutely something i do not need.

i think since Master's Mom had her stroke and now of course since she's gone, it's really sunk in that there's no one for me to just pick up the phone and chat with.  It really bugs Master when i call my sister and chat with her.  He doesn't care for her and that leaves absolutely no one to talk to.  He allows me to speak her, He just doesn't care for her at all.  i heard a long time ago that women need to say a certain amount of words per day, i never thought i was like that, because i am a pretty quiet person.  Maybe that is the case for me though, i don't need to talk about anything really, just to say things and have someone hear me, that's a good thing.

There is a point to my rambling, i think it's time i really assert myself (Master thinks so too) and start looking for a munch group to attend.  Whether it's going back to the group we attended one time, they were great! One never knows. i am not expecting to find my soul sister or anything like that.  Maybe it will just be something to do once in a while and that's really all i'm looking for right now.  Master said He'll go and i'm hoping He has a good time.  Now i just have to find a group and location that works for us! =)

Have a good Saturday!

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Asking For A Rule

Just after i posted my previous post about healing up i realized that i was twisting my nose ring quite a bit and it was getting sore.  i think it was becoming more of a habit than anything and i wasn't doing it with clean sanitized hands.  i was just doing it willy-nilly.  i knew if i kept playing with that ring i was going to get a raging infection, already being as sore as it was i wasn't sure it wasn't already too late.

So i went to Master with a request for help, but a serious one.  i have asked for His help before but nothing in a real serious manner.  i got His full attention (that's always key) and then i presented my case.  i asked Master for a rule temporary or not of course was up to Him.  i knew once i presented my issue it was going to be out of my hands.  i also knew that the punishment i thought of needed to be something fairly intense, at least something that would let Master know i was serious.
Once i had Master's attention, i told Him my problem and then i asked Him if He would help me.  i was asking Him that if at any time He saw me playing with my septum ring, He would punish me.  Right there or as soon as physically possible.  The punishment being 15 hard swats on each fanny cheek with a wooden spoon, every time He saw me OR every time i reported an indiscretion.

Master didn't like my punishment but He was impressed with the severity of it.  For a one time punishment it wasn't anything but if it was to be repeated many times, i thought it would be a good reminder.  His punishment is and would be three swats with HIS wooden spoon on each inner thigh!  His, i believe is MUCH worse than mine might have been.  Oh, and i had forgotten how HUGE that wooden spoon of His is!!!  i have never seen a wooden spoon that large, in my life!!!!

i was really shocked at how eager Master was to take on this new rule.  i thought that i might get scolded or the rule wouldn't be put into place.  Reason being is that i wasn't sure if i should be doing this at all.  i was quite torn on the whole thing.  Should a slave ask for a rule herself, how slave-like is that?  i understood that i needed guidance but i thought Master might see it me trying to take the reigns.  Instead i believe He saw it as i did and as i hoped He would;  me seeing an area that i truly needed improvement, that He couldn't have possibly known about without me telling Him.

This isn't something that i would make a habit of because then i would certainly think it would be totally overstepping that boundary.

i believe we were out shopping later that day and Master looked over at me and asked me if i had just been playing with the ring.  Master is very fair and willing to give me the benefit of the doubt but i admitted that i had been turning it, for no reason.  We got home and Master told me to lie down on the bed, legs spread wide and that's when He pulled out Paul Bunyon's wooden spoon.  He alternated whacks on each thigh and holy crap i felt it in my toes.

my fear of pain keeps me honest, i will say that.  i wouldn't touch this ring unless it was on fire! (or i'm cleaning it!)  i haven't had a punishment since but i'll keep you posted.  Unfortunately my memory is WAYYY worse than my fear of pain! So i will start spinning soon! =)

Have a wonderful day!

Peace to you and yours!

MD's treasure      

Friday, June 07, 2013


i am healing!  All over, even!  my tattoo is healing, my septum ring is healing... i don't think i mentioned what did there and i believe my toe is healing (that's coming along slowly, but it's healing). 

The septum ring... heh.  i changed jewelry quite a while ago and that went fine and as Master ordered several different types of  new jewelry, i tried going up to a 10g from a 12g so not a huge jump, at all. We were both a little excited about trying to get into this 10g purple segment ring.  i couldn't get the segment ring in, i just couldn't do it.  But when i tried the 10g retainer, that went in, not gently but it DID go in.  Turns out, i probably shouldn't have put it in and really, i've had enough piercings and i know better... DERP! Well, ya live and learn.  Next time i'll wait a while and we'll get a taper.  So my nose was very sore for a while.  BUT!  i have the 10g purple segment ring in now and we love it! =)

**i do not however recommend EVER doing what i did, it's bad juju!!! Please wait until your piercing is totally healed and ready for stretching and PLEASE get a taper.  i was thuper thtupid! It hurt for a long time and it was dumb, this is a public service announcement! For real.**

The body is an amazing thing however.  It just does what it's supposed to do, it heals itself all over, without being told what to do! =)  The tattoo only has a few little areas to go before it's smooth all over! =)

Now i just wish this slave would always do what she she was supposed to do without having to be told, or scolded for that matter!!  Sometimes or most of the time, i think i'm behaving better than Master thinks i am.  Why is that?  This week while my toe has been hurting, i thought that i was really pushing myself and working hard to still complete my daily chores, i still made supper all but one night.... etc.  i said something to Master last night about being a good girl and He scoffed at me! pfft! HA!  i think it's good that He pushes me and that i don't get complacent though! But pfft! haha! =p

What is everyone doing for Father's Day?  Master loves food grilled out but He does the grilling.  Hmm how fair is that to have Him cook His own Father's Day meal?  Well i'll have to think about that one!

We're working on the pool today.  Here begins that saga.

Have a wonderful day! 

MD's treasure

Wednesday, June 05, 2013

A Wonderful Thing!

Master and i had been talking about coloring my hair a funky color.  If you ever watch NY Ink, Megan has this awesome bright orange hair that Master loves.  He's just been talking about having some fun with my hair.  The hair on my head you pervs. =p

We have a couple of reservations about doing this however, well one really.  We don't want it to look like i'm just trying to look 20 again.  i'm not someone who is searching for her youth.  i am not at all interested in that, i simply think it would be fun to do and if it looks bad we'll color it back. 

It's interesting though when i say my one reservation is "what other people think" when i just posted that 15 things to let go of and one of them being; what others think of you.  Did i just answer my own question? Hmmm.

So anyway, we went to Sally's Beauty Supply the other night because we had a few minutes to kill while our take and bake pizza was being made.  i asked Master if we could just pop over to see what they had.  There was one girl working and one guy who i'm not even sure he was working there, i think he might have just been her friend.  They were very friendly and very helpful.  They basically just helped us shop, instead of just giving us tips they were just telling us what we needed.

We bought purple color!  We'll see what happens, i'm not sure what i'm going to do with it! i'm a lil freaked out about it! =p

At the end of our shopping trip we were at the counter and Master pointed out a small display of body jewelry for me to look browse.  The guy was quite dramatic and fun and he said that their jewelry wasn't all that great but then said to me, "i love your collar!".  i turned to Master and said "he said collar", the guy said "oh no i just meant necklace!" and i smiled my widest friendliest smile and said ..."no no you were right the first time!!".

As Master went to push the door open to leave the store the guy literally exclaimed and nearly yelled "AWESOME!!!" He knew exactly what i meant and for whatever reason was very happy to hear about our dynamic.  With that, Master turned and opened the door and we walked out to get our pizza.  We'd been in there about 30 minutes too long!

BDSM is popping up all over these days, isn't it? What a wonderful thing!

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure


Boy did i make a big booboo last Sunday night!  Master calls me a clod, i guess this is further evidence of that!  Several years ago had both of my big toenails removed because i had suffered from terrible ingrown nails all my life.  We hoped that by having them permanently surgically removed i would never have the worry of them ever coming back, like some people do.  Well that part was true, there's no chance of that, they'll never come back!

Of course there's no nail which left an exposed bed it's tender at times but not too bad, it's very ugly but i paint it and try to cover it up.  There is a bump at the end of my toe from the surgery and it's always been there since the surgery.

Sunday night i was cleaning up from supper, Master's Dad was over and we had just grilled out.  i was taking things inside and i had on my favorite Vera Wang wedges for our picnic.  =)  Master bought them for me for Christmas this past year... VERY cute!!!! i had my arms full of stuff and i was walking into the garage where the exterior door meets the cement patio.  Somehow (because i'm clumsy) my foot caught on the sill and tore from the top of that toe where the nail should have been and tore it almost off.  It all happened so fast that when Master came to get the stuff out of my hands, i dropped the pepper shaker and the handle broke, (i'm still in trouble for that) and all of a sudden there was blood everywhere!!!! Noooo not on my Vera Wang's!!!!!!!

So Master slipped my shoe off and tried to take the rest off the stuff that i hadn't dropped out of my hands then i asked Him to just get paper towels for the moment.  It bled for at least 45 minutes.  i got it to stop bleeding and decided not to go to the ER, Master said only i was going to be able to tell if i needed to go to the ER.  He was right, i just detest making those decisions.

So, here i am, three days later, limping but my toe is in tact and in less pain than i was, that's for sure!  i'm trying to stay off of it but that's been nearly impossible.  my only hope is that it heals well, only time will tell.  Who knows how long it will be until i'm back in a pump.  i should be back in summer wedges soon, i hope! =)

He lovingly calls me a clod, for good reason! hahaha!!!

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure

(my Vera Wang's came clean!!!)  

Saturday, June 01, 2013

Give Up And Be Happy!

i never do this but i came across this list and i really thought it was worth sharing, i mean really worth reading.  As i started reading i thought this sounds more like an "everything a slave shouldn't be, list".  i was so disappointed in myself as i recognized my faults, the more i read.      

15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy

Here is a list of 15 things which, if you give up on them, will make your life a lot easier and much, much happier. We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering – and instead of letting them all go, instead of allowing ourselves to be stress free and happy – we cling on to them. Not anymore. Starting today we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. Ready? Here we go:

1. Give up your need to always be right. There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?”Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?

1) As a slave, there's no question that it's better to be quiet and unless you know something terrible will happen if you don't speak up, there's no reason to "be right".  There is absolutely no reason to correct my Owner just to make myself feel better.  Always, "be kind".  This is a lesson well learned, for this slave.

2. Give up your need for control. 
Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel.

“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu

3. Give up on blame. Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don’t have, for what you feel or don’t feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.

4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk. Oh my. How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mindset? Don’t believe everything that your mind is telling you – especially if it’s negative and self-defeating. You are better than that.
“The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.” Eckhart Tolle

5. Give up your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on, you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place. Spread your wings and fly!
“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle

6. Give up complaining. Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, maaany things – people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it to. It’s not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.

6) i think i could go on and on about this one but i would just say it's not all about me.  Being able to cut back on the complaining just means recognizing that this life isn't about me, it's about Him and making Him happy.  Why am *i* complaining about this or that when my focus should be about His comfort, His Happiness, His health?  Now i'm not saying that if i am in pain, or if i am cold or i am hurting i should ignore it, i'm just saying that there is a way to present those concerns.

7. Give up the luxury of criticism. Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you. We are all different, yet we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. We all want something, and something is wished by us all.

8. Give up your need to impress others. Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not just to make others like you. It doesn’t work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take of all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.

9. Give up your resistance to change. Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change – don’t resist it.
“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” 
Joseph Campbell

10. Give up labels. Stop labeling those things, people or events that you don’t understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open. “The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.” Wayne Dyer

11. Give up on your fears. Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist – you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place.
“The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.” Franklin D. Roosevelt

12. Give up your excuses. Send them packing and tell them they’re fired. You no longer need them. A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck, lying to ourselves, using all kind of excuses – excuses that 99.9% of the time are not even real.

12) Oh this one was written with me in mind.  =( When i've done something wrong, i'll try to think of anything i can to be sure Master doesn't think it was my fault for whatever it was i did wrong!!! 

13. Give up the past. I know, I know. It’s hard. Especially when the past looks so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. The past you are now longing for – the past that you are now dreaming about – was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.
14. Give up attachment. This is a concept that, for most of us is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too, (it still is) but it’s not something impossible. You get better and better at with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things, (and that doesn’t mean you give up your love for them – because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another,  attachment comes from a place of fear, while love… well, real love is pure, kind, and self less, where there is love there can’t be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot coexist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state beyond words.

15. Give up living your life to other people’s expectations. Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government and the media think is best for them. They ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations, that they lose control over their lives. They forget what makes them happy, what they want, what they need….and eventually they forget about themselves.  You have one life – this one right now – you must live it, own it, and especially don’t let other people’s opinions distract you from your path.

15) Master and i certainly have been working toward this for a long time.  For people in our lifestyle it's difficult to pull away or rather, step outside of ourselves.  Obviously we are very open, on line and should someone in our family happen upon us, then so be it.  However, no one in our immediate family knows our lifestyle.  i'm not sure if we'll ever completely open up to anyone but perhaps we will, it would be wonderful for us of that i'm sure.  i just really have reservations about Master's Dad and my sister and brother.  i think my sister would be ok in time, i don't think my brother would ever understand.  i'm pretty sure Master doesn't care very much what His sister or brother think.  =p

So while i believe every word of this one and i would love to follow this to be free, i can only hope that this is us, one day! =)

i hope you all enjoyed the list, i thought it was awesome!

Peace to you and yours,

MD's treasure