There was a thread title that was so pertinent to my current situation right now i thought i would steal it and use it here.
"Do you stand up for yourself?"
Time after time Master says to me "Why do you let her talk to you like that?". More often than not (as of late) He's talking about His sister, sometimes it's my sister, in the past it was His Mom.
i HATE to argue! i really really do! So here's the thing about His sister when there is an issue where i know i'm right i'll say my peace and leave it alone, even if i know i'm right. i don't care about looking like an idiot or letting them think they're right. Who cares if they walk away with their heads held high? The bad thing is, it becomes a pattern and they think they can consistently do it and i become stomping ground. Even when i'm right, they are clearly in the wrong, sometimes it might be important and i need to stand up, i've gotten used to just allowing them to be right. BAD....
Case in point; You know what a gait belt is? It's exactly what it sounds like. It's used to help people walk and transfer from one chair or bed to another etc. Master's sister and pretty much everyone who isn't trained thinks that the gait belt is "for wimps". Wrong! That belt is used for the patients' comfort as well as safety AND to help the person who is lifting.
When using the belt, you place it around the patient's torso, now you're lifting them with the security of the belt snugly wrapped around the torso and putting much less strain under their arms. Much less of a risk dislocating a shoulder by lifting all their body weight by only lifting underneath the arms.
It's completely a no brainer to take the extra minute it might take to wrap that belt around Master's Mom for her comfort, rather than trying to prove.... whatever Master's sister is trying to prove. It's all a control thing, really. i want her to use the belt and well, she won't.
There are more scenarios than i can count. Of course it's not all about being right or wrong, it's just about Master's sister being rude and me not standing up to her. i asked her what was going to be going on one day at a family pic nic and she said in a voice that makes me think of the Wicked Witch Of The West, "Didn't you get a schedule?!??! It was nothing as dramatic as that, only my memory seeing her sitting in her chair with her glasses on the tip of her nose, looking at me with such disdain....
Well yes, we did get one! A year ago and it's hanging on our fridge. The thing is i thought i would ASK to make conversation AND because your in contact with the people who are organizing the event, daily. OH! PLUS NEVERMIND! But see i didn't SAY any of that because i'm a big fat wimp, instead i sat in the corner of the room and fought back tears, trying to figure out why people are so mean.
So Master has about had it because He's tired of her being mean but i don't want to raise a stink because i don't want to upset His Mom. Master really wants me to just say to His sister, "look, this is really enough, there's no earthly reason for you to talk to me like this and i'm tired of you being mean to me." or just once when i am in the right about a medical issue, i should actually push the issue to the point of her backing down. i just need to stand up to her once but that's SO much harder than it seems. Neither Master nor i want WWII and that's what could happen. It has to be me, not Master. Master can stand up to her all He wants but that won't solve a thing, He's not afraid of her.
Master's sister is certainly not as bad as this post makes her out to be, i have featured only the worst side of her here. She and i (or so i thought) used to be friends. i don't think we ever were, i just wanted to be in a bad way. She can be very generous at times but something changed when Master confronted her just that one time about throwing away something that didn't belong to her. Everything went up in smoke and the world hasn't been the same since.
So if i were to post on that thread... my answer would be... HEH! NO! But i need help! Master couldn't be more supportive of me if He tried but if He gets involved it will be a war and i'm not even being dramatic. This one is on me to try to solve.
So now it's your turn;
Do you stand up for yourself? i would love to hear back from you! In comments, email where ever you like!
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
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Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Formspring Question
"Is she going to get a nose ring?"
Hi and thanks for the question. i'll assume that you're asking Master this question. This is actually something Master has talked about for quite some time and in the simplest of terms yes, some day He will in fact put in a nose ring. It will be a septum piercing.
Master puts a lot of thought into everything that He does, so He wants to do it at the right time. There is a time and place for everything and certainly a place to have His slave tromping about with a septum piercing. So there will be times when Master will want the nose ring to be less conspicuous than others. When He wants the piercing to go undetected Master wants to be sure that the retainer He chooses will serve it's purpose well.
i'm sure that there will be a septum piercing in the future, how long in the future is completely up to Him! =)
Have faith though that there will pictures and many of them, when it happens! =)
Thanks again for the question!!
MD's treasure
Saturday, September 15, 2012
Showing Too Much At The Zoo
Master has been after me for years to sew up all the slits in all my dresses and skirts. The problem is, i don't have a proper sewing machine and if i do it by hand it will look like i did it by hand. AND.... i'm not a great seamstress, i'm not even a good one as far as that goes. i can sew on a button and a patch and in a pinch, make a hole, "not" look like a hole. That's about it, really. So for me to sew up a slit and make it look like a four year old didn't do it, yeah that's probably not a job for me.
Sunday night Master came to me and told me that i was supposed to find an outfit that would be acceptable for outdoors, semi casual and then sort of fancy. This outfit was just supposed to materialize out of nowhere hehe! So i set to work to come up with said outfit. i had a dress picked out that i thought would work nicely and i would be able to dress it up and or down with jewelry and shoes for each environment. Master didn't like the belt however. So He went searching and found two or three better dresses. i chose one of the dresses that He liked and ... i chose poorly!
The dress that i chose was a short little thing and i've never sewn the slit. The last time i wore it i didn't have any trouble because my stockings were tighter. It always depends on the brand of stockings as to how everything pulls together. Monday, things didn't pull together very well! The slit on this dress is actually quite short but in a dress that short, it can't be "too" long, can it? =)
So as i'm getting in the car for the first time, i think to myself that i might have a problem with my stockings! This isn't going to work well and then i think uh oh... you're going to be able to see the stockings from the back! As odd as it might seem, in some cases, i can be somewhat modest! i knew we were going to be out and about all day and i didn't want to be showing stockings all day! i should have gone right back inside and changed but we were running a little behind schedule, so i went with it.
The whole day was one surprise after another! When we started out of town, Master told me to put on a blindfold so i wouldn't know where we were going. i had a feeling the whole day was about going to the zoo! There is a small zoo near us and He's been promising to take me all summer. It was a beautiful day and even though we could scarcely spare the day away, Master just stole the day away and we did it!
Once we pulled up in the parking lot, i instantly heard this tremendously loud squawking! It was awesome! He knew i had a feeling where we were but we were super excited about the day! So we hopped out and began our trip!
i only had one hesitation, my stockings were showing and i was pretty cautious about it. When we're in a family setting, i'm more conscious than ever of how i'm dressed. i love to look good for Master but i don't want to show "too much". At that point there just wasn't anything i could do about it and Master said if it got too bad i could take them off but He wasn't going to give in any too soon.
The zoo is relatively small and only took a very short time to walk through. Once we left there we went and had a small snack. Then back on with the blindfold for another surprise. i had no idea where we were going and this time i was stumped. We only drove for a short time before we pulled up at this awesome greenhouse/gift shop place that i've been just dying to go to all summer and no matter how hard we try, we just haven't been able to get there! Master's timing was perfect because i'd all but forgotten about going to the place! We wandered around there for quite some time and gasped at the prices, mostly i just love the pretties. =)
It was too early for supper so we did a little more shopping that we needed to get done. Once it was finally time for supper, back on with the blindfold. Now i just knew i had our dinner destination figured out! WRONG. Master drove and drove.... hmmm! When He made some twists and turns after we'd been driving a while, i figured it out! We were at the casino.
All day, my stockings were showing but by now, we were in an all adult environment and i didn't much care. unfortunately, they were lower now than they'd been all day because they were getting looser and looser. i'm not sure how visable they were but if they were i guess it was up to Master to make the decision to have me change out of them. Which of course, He never did.
The night was great and Master decided He'd have a blowjob when we got home so i beat Him to it! He was in His chair in the den and i went in and knelt at His side. i told Him that i wanted to thank Him for the lovely day and He said.. Ohhh you wanna thank Me..."down there?" He granted me the opportunity to thank Him with a lovely cock sucking to end the day. It was a pretty good day and we these days we definitely need those intertwined!
i hope you're all having a wonderful weekend!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Sunday night Master came to me and told me that i was supposed to find an outfit that would be acceptable for outdoors, semi casual and then sort of fancy. This outfit was just supposed to materialize out of nowhere hehe! So i set to work to come up with said outfit. i had a dress picked out that i thought would work nicely and i would be able to dress it up and or down with jewelry and shoes for each environment. Master didn't like the belt however. So He went searching and found two or three better dresses. i chose one of the dresses that He liked and ... i chose poorly!
The dress that i chose was a short little thing and i've never sewn the slit. The last time i wore it i didn't have any trouble because my stockings were tighter. It always depends on the brand of stockings as to how everything pulls together. Monday, things didn't pull together very well! The slit on this dress is actually quite short but in a dress that short, it can't be "too" long, can it? =)
So as i'm getting in the car for the first time, i think to myself that i might have a problem with my stockings! This isn't going to work well and then i think uh oh... you're going to be able to see the stockings from the back! As odd as it might seem, in some cases, i can be somewhat modest! i knew we were going to be out and about all day and i didn't want to be showing stockings all day! i should have gone right back inside and changed but we were running a little behind schedule, so i went with it.
The whole day was one surprise after another! When we started out of town, Master told me to put on a blindfold so i wouldn't know where we were going. i had a feeling the whole day was about going to the zoo! There is a small zoo near us and He's been promising to take me all summer. It was a beautiful day and even though we could scarcely spare the day away, Master just stole the day away and we did it!
Once we pulled up in the parking lot, i instantly heard this tremendously loud squawking! It was awesome! He knew i had a feeling where we were but we were super excited about the day! So we hopped out and began our trip!
i only had one hesitation, my stockings were showing and i was pretty cautious about it. When we're in a family setting, i'm more conscious than ever of how i'm dressed. i love to look good for Master but i don't want to show "too much". At that point there just wasn't anything i could do about it and Master said if it got too bad i could take them off but He wasn't going to give in any too soon.
The zoo is relatively small and only took a very short time to walk through. Once we left there we went and had a small snack. Then back on with the blindfold for another surprise. i had no idea where we were going and this time i was stumped. We only drove for a short time before we pulled up at this awesome greenhouse/gift shop place that i've been just dying to go to all summer and no matter how hard we try, we just haven't been able to get there! Master's timing was perfect because i'd all but forgotten about going to the place! We wandered around there for quite some time and gasped at the prices, mostly i just love the pretties. =)
It was too early for supper so we did a little more shopping that we needed to get done. Once it was finally time for supper, back on with the blindfold. Now i just knew i had our dinner destination figured out! WRONG. Master drove and drove.... hmmm! When He made some twists and turns after we'd been driving a while, i figured it out! We were at the casino.
All day, my stockings were showing but by now, we were in an all adult environment and i didn't much care. unfortunately, they were lower now than they'd been all day because they were getting looser and looser. i'm not sure how visable they were but if they were i guess it was up to Master to make the decision to have me change out of them. Which of course, He never did.
The night was great and Master decided He'd have a blowjob when we got home so i beat Him to it! He was in His chair in the den and i went in and knelt at His side. i told Him that i wanted to thank Him for the lovely day and He said.. Ohhh you wanna thank Me..."down there?" He granted me the opportunity to thank Him with a lovely cock sucking to end the day. It was a pretty good day and we these days we definitely need those intertwined!
i hope you're all having a wonderful weekend!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Friday, September 14, 2012
Balance, i'm Tippy
i need to find balance, a happy medium if you will between complete chaos and our time being pretty much our time. Yes in the last few years we've devoted a lot of time to Master's parents but nothing like the last few weeks since Master's Mom has been in the nursing home. Pretty much every day revolves around going to see her, Master's Dad or if we're not going to see her we're doing something related to them. i'm just not balancing things at home and His parents very well.
So when i have a day at home, i feel as though i have to do everything in that day. Clean/laundry/catch up on the blog/email/phone calls, you name it! It's clear that i need to find some sort of routine in order to make my life just a bit easier. i have routines for the animals because you can't just not care for them and of course the daily things like dishes, but it's the things that you can let yourself fall behind on, like laundry and cleaning! ugh!
i know i put this pressure on myself, no one is going to come in and inspect our bathrooms or tell me my pillow cases should be changed. But i know! That's what is important!
Not only that, i just need to find a sense of balance for my own well being. i need to know that on those days we have home, it's not going to spent running myself ragged.
i'm sorry to complain, we're sorta going through a rough time right now.
If anyone is still reading, bless you!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
So when i have a day at home, i feel as though i have to do everything in that day. Clean/laundry/catch up on the blog/email/phone calls, you name it! It's clear that i need to find some sort of routine in order to make my life just a bit easier. i have routines for the animals because you can't just not care for them and of course the daily things like dishes, but it's the things that you can let yourself fall behind on, like laundry and cleaning! ugh!
i know i put this pressure on myself, no one is going to come in and inspect our bathrooms or tell me my pillow cases should be changed. But i know! That's what is important!
Not only that, i just need to find a sense of balance for my own well being. i need to know that on those days we have home, it's not going to spent running myself ragged.
i'm sorry to complain, we're sorta going through a rough time right now.
If anyone is still reading, bless you!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
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