i found an article in the Reader's Digest the other night about "today's woman". i'm using the term lightly here because it's very subjective. This article and the book they are referring to certainly doesn't reflect any of my own feelings toward marriage. The book is called The Superior Wife Syndrome: Why women do everything so well and why - for the sake of our marriages- We've got to stop.
Basically the book states that men see that after having children husbands surrender all aspects of family concerns and duties to the wife and the husband becomes oblivious to everything around him. The woman is powerless to kick him into gear, so she has to do everything to keep the house running. She has created a monster by being so efficient, basically. So, who's fault is it? In a relationship like Master and i have, it's my position to do my chores and indoor tasks but if He were to one day tell me that i were to take care of every single thing around the house, would we fall into this position? Never say Never, but i would have to say i seriously doubt it. He in His dominance still runs the house and everything in and around it.
Master and i have had countless talks about how it's too bad that more people can't live this life, even if it's not M/s or D/s, just some type of clearly defined role where there is no mistaking who is in charge, there is no arguing, there is no question of how things will end up. When it's a healthy make up, there can be discussion or there can just be clearly defined rules. A woman shouldn't have to beg her mate to become part of the relationship, he should be fully invested of his own accord, if he knew he was the ruler of the roost, no matter what, if he knew he was the final say, there is just no question in my mind he'd be all in. It's just so sad when i see a woman pleading with her husband to back her up when disciplining the children, if he knew that he wouldn't be over ruled by the woman, i'm sure he would all in with those kids from day one. That's a guess but i bet it's a good one.
The only thing that this book does is reinforce my choice in life. i am so glad i chose the path that i did, honestly i really walked into it blindly for the most part, i thought it sounded "fun". Little did i know it would be one of the best things i would do for myself. =)
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
Banners here also!
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Sunday, August 09, 2009
Another quick post
We had a really nice weekend. Saturday we went to a family pic nic and Master went night fishing, i just sat at the computer while He was gone and spent my evening that way. He got home really super late and i was already in bed. Today i went swimming and had a friend and her daughter and a friend over. It was so hot outside that the pool water was very warm and finally got to enjoy the water.
It was finally a real summer weekend.
i hope you all had a great weekend!
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It was finally a real summer weekend.
i hope you all had a great weekend!
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Friday, August 07, 2009
How to be a Stepford Wife
How to be a Stepford Wife
A strong sense of the self
A sense of humor
A drive for excellence
Neatness
Order
Step 1:Always wear your makeup.
Step 2:Always take care of your hair. Not a strand should be out of place.
Step 3:If you are not well-endowed in your torso area, use bra inserts, augmenters, or the chicshaper. Large bosoms featured prominently in Levin's original story.
Step 4:If you are not thin, wear a girdle.
Step 5:Wear tight, but conservatively-cut clothing to show off your assets. (Remember to wear an apron during housework)
Step 6:Look in the mirror. Imagine yourself as a girl in a television commercial; you should look flawless, at all times. The picture of the Stepford Wife is the picture of a person who is healthy and takes good care of herself.
Step 7:Clean clean clean! Everything needs to be spotless. Even if it takes a dozen repeated rubs, scrubs, and buff in the same spot. Clean and clean some more, in every corner of the house.
Step 8:Cook.
Step 9:Shop at the supermarket. Push your cart slowly. All items need to be placed in your shopping cart neatly, methodically, and in an orderly fashion.
Step 10:Practice gracious and polite behavior even when you are alone. Eat with the silverware in place even when you eat alone. Etiquette and proper manners begin at home, when no one is looking.
Step 11:Never raise your voice.
Step 12:Always say "please" and "thank you" for the smallest things, in public and private.
Step 13:Always apologize for the smallest things, in public and private.
Step 14:Do not possess any strong opinions on any subject, unless you are expressing enthusiasm for cleaning products or food ingredients and recipes.
Step 15:Your man is No.1. He is the kingpin in your life. You answer first to him, then to your son, and then other men (and only when you are spoken to).
Step 16:Don't read, because who has time when you have this much housework to do and so many men to attend to?
The last one is funny, don't read? i also like the one about only expressing an opinion about food ingredients and recipes hehe. This reminds me a little bit of the Good Housekeeping guidelines. Master sent this to me in an email and i thought i would share it. Some of them are pretty neat and interesting!
MD's treasure
A strong sense of the self
A sense of humor
A drive for excellence
Neatness
Order
Step 1:Always wear your makeup.
Step 2:Always take care of your hair. Not a strand should be out of place.
Step 3:If you are not well-endowed in your torso area, use bra inserts, augmenters, or the chicshaper. Large bosoms featured prominently in Levin's original story.
Step 4:If you are not thin, wear a girdle.
Step 5:Wear tight, but conservatively-cut clothing to show off your assets. (Remember to wear an apron during housework)
Step 6:Look in the mirror. Imagine yourself as a girl in a television commercial; you should look flawless, at all times. The picture of the Stepford Wife is the picture of a person who is healthy and takes good care of herself.
Step 7:Clean clean clean! Everything needs to be spotless. Even if it takes a dozen repeated rubs, scrubs, and buff in the same spot. Clean and clean some more, in every corner of the house.
Step 8:Cook.
Step 9:Shop at the supermarket. Push your cart slowly. All items need to be placed in your shopping cart neatly, methodically, and in an orderly fashion.
Step 10:Practice gracious and polite behavior even when you are alone. Eat with the silverware in place even when you eat alone. Etiquette and proper manners begin at home, when no one is looking.
Step 11:Never raise your voice.
Step 12:Always say "please" and "thank you" for the smallest things, in public and private.
Step 13:Always apologize for the smallest things, in public and private.
Step 14:Do not possess any strong opinions on any subject, unless you are expressing enthusiasm for cleaning products or food ingredients and recipes.
Step 15:Your man is No.1. He is the kingpin in your life. You answer first to him, then to your son, and then other men (and only when you are spoken to).
Step 16:Don't read, because who has time when you have this much housework to do and so many men to attend to?
The last one is funny, don't read? i also like the one about only expressing an opinion about food ingredients and recipes hehe. This reminds me a little bit of the Good Housekeeping guidelines. Master sent this to me in an email and i thought i would share it. Some of them are pretty neat and interesting!
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Sunday, August 02, 2009
Wonderful Weekend!!!
i nearly forgot to make this post, i meant to take a couple minutes earlier this evening and it completely slipped my mind. We had a wonderful weekend with Master Dark and His desyre. We spent most of the time just chatting. Saturday the weather cleared up enough to spend some time in the pool and we had a lovely supper and a great time at the bon fire.
i think that everything went perfectly and i can't wait until they come back. i just couldn't be more excited to think that i finally have a real life friend in the lifestyle that knows us and truly knows me. This is a really exciting time in our life. Her Master is new to the lifestyle and i think He is going to be an incredible Master to her as they grow together. We're really excited for them.
Master and her Master worked on rules Saturday night. It was fun for me to listen mostly and be a part of the beginning of their life together. We're going to really make an effort to get together often. i wish we were closer but it's not too bad.
i better get this posted. i am very short on time!
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i think that everything went perfectly and i can't wait until they come back. i just couldn't be more excited to think that i finally have a real life friend in the lifestyle that knows us and truly knows me. This is a really exciting time in our life. Her Master is new to the lifestyle and i think He is going to be an incredible Master to her as they grow together. We're really excited for them.
Master and her Master worked on rules Saturday night. It was fun for me to listen mostly and be a part of the beginning of their life together. We're going to really make an effort to get together often. i wish we were closer but it's not too bad.
i better get this posted. i am very short on time!
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