So i started thinking about other times i've heard this in the past, in more of a broad spectrum, not just about this one instance and wondered how many people actually feel as though they just aren't a slave or sub until they become owned or belong to someone. i know this isn't a new topic by any means, it's just the first time i've had an opportunity to really think about it in full.
So many things rushed through my mind at once but the first thing i thought of was, "Of course you have something to write about!" they are still a person, a slave or submissive with thoughts on how they may one day serve his or her Master. They have dreams and aspirations and what a wonderful way to show how they might one day serve Him than by journaling and writing down all their goals. i know as someone who reads blogs i never know where i'm going to come across that next gem of wisdom. It's most certainly not always from the slave who has been in the lifestyle for 25 years nor is it always from the novice. You just never know where or from whom you'll find the best bits of wisdom on any given day.
i'm not sure what's right or wrong, does the Master make the slave but i know i was already pretty submissive before i met Master. Should they have a submissive's soul, he or she would have so much to share about their daily decisions and how they go about living without someone to make they decisions for them. It's an entirely different life than what some of us lead, yet perfectly normal and content and happy.
Being a sub without a Master doesn't mean we're always empty or sad it just means we might be in transition. Some choose to live that way and simply live life as a submissive to many or none. Those people certainly have much to journal about. It's not my way of life and never could be but it's something that people definitely choose. There of course are the ones who are looking and looking desperately. A journal can also be a place for venting about that as well. Again talking about long term and short term goals.
my point being is that it's difficult for me to see someone selling themselves short simply because they aren't in a relationship. i will never be the feminist who says "i don't need no man to make me whole!!!"
Going back to that email, in my opinion; whether you have a Master or not, you have something to share. =)
i hope you're all having a wonderful weekend!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Wonderfully said. I started my blog just before I met Sir. I had been thinking about this lifestyle for quite some time, and I think better when I write.
ReplyDeleteHad I not met sir, I would still be writing. Even if you don't have someone to serve, there's still research you can do, feelings you can explore, and events that happen!
Thank you! i just think everyone has something good to share no matter what stage of their life they are in at the time. =)
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