There was a thread title that was so pertinent to my current situation right now i thought i would steal it and use it here.
"Do you stand up for yourself?"
Time after time Master says to me "Why do you let her talk to you like that?". More often than not (as of late) He's talking about His sister, sometimes it's my sister, in the past it was His Mom.
i HATE to argue! i really really do! So here's the thing about His sister when there is an issue where i know i'm right i'll say my peace and leave it alone, even if i know i'm right. i don't care about looking like an idiot or letting them think they're right. Who cares if they walk away with their heads held high? The bad thing is, it becomes a pattern and they think they can consistently do it and i become stomping ground. Even when i'm right, they are clearly in the wrong, sometimes it might be important and i need to stand up, i've gotten used to just allowing them to be right. BAD....
Case in point; You know what a gait belt is? It's exactly what it sounds like. It's used to help people walk and transfer from one chair or bed to another etc. Master's sister and pretty much everyone who isn't trained thinks that the gait belt is "for wimps". Wrong! That belt is used for the patients' comfort as well as safety AND to help the person who is lifting.
When using the belt, you place it around the patient's torso, now you're lifting them with the security of the belt snugly wrapped around the torso and putting much less strain under their arms. Much less of a risk dislocating a shoulder by lifting all their body weight by only lifting underneath the arms.
It's completely a no brainer to take the extra minute it might take to wrap that belt around Master's Mom for her comfort, rather than trying to prove.... whatever Master's sister is trying to prove. It's all a control thing, really. i want her to use the belt and well, she won't.
There are more scenarios than i can count. Of course it's not all about being right or wrong, it's just about Master's sister being rude and me not standing up to her. i asked her what was going to be going on one day at a family pic nic and she said in a voice that makes me think of the Wicked Witch Of The West, "Didn't you get a schedule?!??! It was nothing as dramatic as that, only my memory seeing her sitting in her chair with her glasses on the tip of her nose, looking at me with such disdain....
Well yes, we did get one! A year ago and it's hanging on our fridge. The thing is i thought i would ASK to make conversation AND because your in contact with the people who are organizing the event, daily. OH! PLUS NEVERMIND! But see i didn't SAY any of that because i'm a big fat wimp, instead i sat in the corner of the room and fought back tears, trying to figure out why people are so mean.
So Master has about had it because He's tired of her being mean but i don't want to raise a stink because i don't want to upset His Mom. Master really wants me to just say to His sister, "look, this is really enough, there's no earthly reason for you to talk to me like this and i'm tired of you being mean to me." or just once when i am in the right about a medical issue, i should actually push the issue to the point of her backing down. i just need to stand up to her once but that's SO much harder than it seems. Neither Master nor i want WWII and that's what could happen. It has to be me, not Master. Master can stand up to her all He wants but that won't solve a thing, He's not afraid of her.
Master's sister is certainly not as bad as this post makes her out to be, i have featured only the worst side of her here. She and i (or so i thought) used to be friends. i don't think we ever were, i just wanted to be in a bad way. She can be very generous at times but something changed when Master confronted her just that one time about throwing away something that didn't belong to her. Everything went up in smoke and the world hasn't been the same since.
So if i were to post on that thread... my answer would be... HEH! NO! But i need help! Master couldn't be more supportive of me if He tried but if He gets involved it will be a war and i'm not even being dramatic. This one is on me to try to solve.
So now it's your turn;
Do you stand up for yourself? i would love to hear back from you! In comments, email where ever you like!
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We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
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