As with every area in our relationship Master and i have clearly defined roles. Master is the one who likes to shop and spend money and i'm the one who is more ... frugal shall we say? Master calls it cheap! i'm not cheap i just like to be a little more careful... hrrmph.
Master however is in charge of our finances, He pays all the bills, takes care of everything. Pretty much every cent that is spent is spent by Master. i have a few little pennies here and there but it's really pocket change. i do have ways to access money immediately, of course.
That being said, even though Master is in complete control of our finances and buys whatever He wants whenever He wants it, if there is a purchase that is out of the ordinary more often than not, He wants my opinion. Sometimes i think He wants my opinion simply for that, just to see what i think is the better of two options or to see if i think we need that particular item at that time, what have you.
The other side of the coin is this; Master will ask my opinion about something that He knows i'm not in favor of, yet His mind is really nearly made up. It's clearly masochistic. Now it's a fine line, because i am appreciative and respectful of Master because He values my opinions enough to allow me to weigh in on lots of things. He really considers my opinion. Other times, He'll ask me what i think and then do exactly what He was going to do in the first place. Why? Cause He's DaBoss. Even if i think it's a great big ole mistake.
Here's what i don't do. i don't sit back and give Him a great big bowl of "i told You so" if it doesn't work out. Once a decision is made, we're in it for the long haul together. i WANT things to go well in every situation and i want Him to be happy all the time. That's why when i do give my opinion, i hope it's the right one, for both of us.
Master does the same for me. If i want something and i'm just not sure if it's the right thing at the right time, He'll let me fail. He weighs in on everything but He will let me make some of my own decisions on some things. Such as things for the yard (decorations/trees) or things that He knows i'll be the primary user. If i mess up, we're in it together. =)
Yesterday we spent the entire day at the nursing home with His Mom and had a really wonderful day. It was just Master and i with His Mom and it was quiet and uninterrupted. Today and tomorrow we're home with very few plans. i don't remember a time when we were able to spend time together, getting a few things done at home and working on projects that need to be done here.
i hope that everyone has a safe and fun holiday weekend!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
Banners here also!
It's got to be hard sometimes not to say "I told you so". It takes a strong person to do that, and to really put the happiness of others before them. To let them learn from experience without any additional emotional consequences!
ReplyDeletei guess i just figure that He's making His decisions to the very best of His ability with our best interest at heart. Sometimes when things don't work out it's just wrong to throw it up in His face. i'm His partner in everything, the good and the bad, even a decision gone wrong. The world outside of our marriage is mean enough, we need all the support we can get between each other.
ReplyDeleteMore often than not when one or the other of us has made a bad decision we're the very first to look at the other one and say, "why didn't you tell me i was being an idiot?" =)
There are no minced words and very little is left to wonder between us. Being candid works well for us and being able to joke and be who we really are with each other is what makes us tick.
But mostly it's you being the idiot, rarely me.
ReplyDeletehahahahaha (gasp) hahahaha Ohhhh that's a good un right there. Have You met You?
DeleteYou're wearing a purple pimp hat in Your avatar pic.
treasure = win
Bitch jumped in the car, asked me where we goin'. I'm Shorty the Pimp, bitch, you goin' hoin'!
ReplyDeletePimp quotes? really.
DeleteWell, I lol'd. : )
Deletehaha Lea, you're encouraging Him!! =p
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