One question i have the hardest time answering is "what's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?". Similarly "what sort of kink are you into?". i have a very hard time defining kinky in my life. Everything that we do has just melded into our life. i can't seem to compartmentalize what some people might look at as "normal" or "kink" because our whole life is lived as an M/s couple so i can't pick and choose this bit or that bit as being kinky.
Washing dishes, doing laundry, whatever else i might do around the house, with my ankles in chains, to me, has become quite normal or standard operating procedure. Asking to use the bathroom or to eat or stopping on a dime to give a blow job when He wants one. i'm actually struggling to come up with things to type because i'm not sure even these things are "kinky". Maybe to someone who isn't in the lifestyle they are but to anyone who is reading this they must seem, again, SOP.
It gives me the warm fuzzies to think about kitty at the sub-mission in her kitty ears and tail, dressed for her Master. i still don't think anything about that is "kinky" i think that's her and the way she lives.
i can think of lots of other examples of other slaves who do things for their Master's regularly like Bre at Owned Collared Loved, who is called "property" instead of any other name. That doesn't seem kinky to me, that's who they are.
If you're to think about it, can you come up with something that is truly "kinky" or like me, when asked, do you just feel like it's not really kinky exactly it's simply how you and your Master/Mistress live your life?
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
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I get that question a lot when I'm doing my panel in front of the college students. My response always is, "Tell me the kinkiest thing you've done and I'll top it." For most people it's just a titillating answer they are looking for anyway. You don't have to try to quantify your kink or your way of living for anyone else but you.
ReplyDeleteLuna,
Deletei like your response and i would certainly never feel on the hook to, as you say quantify my way of living. i just have always had a hard time seeing our way of doing things as anything other than "normal". =)
Personally, I can't stand the word. If it was up to Me, it would be stricken from the dictionary. It has no meaning to anyone who knows how to use it responsibly.
ReplyDeleteBut you already knew that...
i know You don't like it Master! However it's hard to come up with another word that lumps all "out of the ordinary" things that "we" do. ;)
DeleteI hate those questions. They are so ridiculous, to be honest. To me it always sounds like "Hey there! I want you to tell me how hardcore you think you are?" Pssssh. Who gives a frack?
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who is new to kink in general, and just went to the club for the first time. She told me she felt out of place because she didn't take as much pain as others were taking. That made me so mad. I don't understand why, as a group, everyone seems to be in such competition over their kinks. "Who can take the most pain?" "Who is the weirdest?" "Who can sexualize soap?" Who gives a flying F? You know? I think that as long as you're enjoying your dynamic, the play (for me) is secondary, and has no bearing on how much love we have or how deep our dynamic is.
I guess I got off on a tangent.
I usually ignore those types of questions. They are silly, and I think the people who ask only want to be shocked. I'm not really out to shock, just to enjoy what Master and me have.
Kitty, i just saw this! i really like where you're coming from. This isn't a competition, this isn't about "who can be the kinkiest" or who can go the furthest. It's all about being happy in who you are.
Deletei really love what you said about people wanting to be shocked. That's really what i'm seeing a lot of. There is a lot out there but there's a check and balance too. Part of this lifestyle is "shocking" no matter how you slice it so i think people just want to hear about our lives. As long as we're truthful, it's up to them to like it or hate it. But certainly not up to me to provide that shock value. Again, i loved comment kitty, people really want to be shocked and that's not what i'm in this for, i'm just here to live the life that Master and i are building. =)