Okay. So maybe your BDSM lifestyle is more extensive that I realized. However if that's what makes you happy. Who cares what people think. My point is that as those relationships go yours is not all that kinky.
i am completely okay with that, as Master and i detest the word "kinky".
i can only speak for myself and as i don't consider myself "kinky" i simply consider our relationship to be what it is, if some want to call it kinky, fine. If others want to call it vanilla that's fine too, we just call it "us".
That being said, what do you consider a kinky relationship? i mean a real livable life with the ups and downs of actual life. Considering aging parents that need to be cared for, jobs that need to be worked, bills that need paid, animals that need cared for, children that must be cared for (if the couple has them), homes that must be kept up, illnesses that must be tended to or doctor appointments. i am not talking about what Master so eloquently spoke of "a play party". i am speaking of a real life.
i am of the opinion that Master has weighed our lifestyle and there is nothing "vanilla" if you will, about it. The Master/slave element is ever-present no matter where we are, who we're with or what we're doing. Even if we're apart for hours, days or weeks at a time. (When i was caring for my dying Mom).
i will say one last thing. This blog has always been one thing, the truth. Our relationship is what it is. i just write because Master told me eleven years ago when we got together that i would write every day. Then eight years ago, i brought it on line and He told me i would write at least twice a week. This blog is simply our life. i love my readers, i love the fact that i have made friends and met some pretty amazing people and i love how people like yourself challenge me. However, i won't make crap up just because you may not think we're kinky enough. If you don't think we're kinky, then.. um... okay? =)
Thanks for writing.
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