TMI Tuesday

1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically?

my desire to be "edgy" or bad.  If Master and i lived somewhere different, i would dress much differently than i do now.  i am not so much into watching porn but i like making it for others to watch.

2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they?

Clothing, shoes, stockings, jewelry, collars, earrings, slips, skirts, dresses.  i love anything that will adorn the body and even draw (some) attention, although this is somewhat new to me.  Again if it's edgy, that's fun for me.  Ankle and wrist cuffs that have big O or D rings or even bells, are awesome. 

3. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it? Tell us more.

Well, haha i am a slave!!! It depends on what He uses and how hard i'm being hit and for how long, whether or not i enjoy myself.  The fact of the matter is, i don't like pain and Master isn't really into giving it but every once in a while, He will, for different reasons.  i do enjoy a flogger, the heavier ones are better and i can go to a happy place with a heavy flogger.  The worst spanking i ever received wasn't even for a punishment it was for my 40th birthday.  He gave me forty swats for each year with different types of implements, whew. =)

4. Have you been tied up, or tied someone else up? Did you use rope or  restraints?

i have been tied up yes.  The most common way that Master chooses to restrain me is leather ankle and wrist cuffs and chain.  Although He has used rope to hog tie me in the past.  i have never tied anyone else up.

5. Would you classify yourself as more dominant, submissive, a switch or entirely vanilla? 

i am a slave.

6. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?

This might sound like a strange answer and somewhat of a contrast to the first question.  i don't really think much of what i do or how we live is "kinky" or strange at all.  i have a really hard time finding anything kinky or perverted about my life.  Others might wholeheartedly disagree and think that everything that Master and i do is completely messed up and nothing but kink but i believe that we're simply living in our own comfort zone.  So when i meet someone on line and they ask me what's really "out there" about me, it takes me a bit to come up with something.  i don't think i'm much different than anyone else. 

That having been said we make and sell porn so we try to get as creative with it as possible.  i suppose some of those bits might be considered a bit kinky, if you will.  Does it seem odd that there is STILL a butt plug on the bed post of the bed?  Eh, maybe.  Master made me stand at the bed post and suck that butt plug as a punishment for a certain length of time.  Going out to get carry out food with only stockings and a garter belt on under a full length coat, a bit odd, sure. 

7. Have you been to a BDSM club? What was it like? If not, would you ever go to one?

We haven't, i think just for the experience of it, one time it would be a blast.  You bet!

8. What’s your favourite fetish item or implement?

Collars and cuffs.  But if i have to pick one, it's collars.

9. Favourite kinky clothing material?

Leather.

10. Thigh boots – love ‘em or hate ‘em? 

Love 'em but i don't have any!  me! The girl with all the shoes and i don't have any!  Isn't it a crime? =p

11. If you’re kinky, who knows about it? Do you tell people or is it a closely guarded secret?

Master's best friend knows everything about us.  We had some friends who knew quite about, beyond that only friends that are in the lifestyle know about us.  We don't really hide who we are though either.  We live very much as a Dom/sub couple, no matter where we are.  Master is clearly in charge of everything and every decision at stores, restaurants, in front of His family, everywhere.  We don't broadcast the fact that i am a slave it's just clear that He's Dominant in our relationship.  i don't follow behind Him with my head down like a mouse, (although that might be fun to try) i simply refer to Him as i should for our decisions.   

12. What are your personal limits? 

There are things i don't like, sure.  i am afraid of the whole not being able to get a good breath thing, because i was born with asthma, i have had to overcome that and learn how to wear a hood where it's tight and the air is warm.  That by far is the very worst for me, everything to do with breathing.  Master likes hoods so when the rubber hits the road, i'm a slave.  Master will tell me what my limits are and that's what trust is all about.

13. What’s your safeword and why did you choose that one?

Master and i have never had a safeword.  i understand there are about a million different schools of thought on the subject, all of the
arguments are perfectly valid.  We however choose not to use one. 

14. Which fetishes do you just really not get?

i think if i had to choose one thing at all it would be the involvement of food in sex.  i've never thought it was erotic as so many people do, it sort of squicks me out.  All i see when i see people using all that food is the enormous waste and how so many people could have been fed off of all that food.  i guess i just can't get past the waste part of it all.

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