i belong to a yahoo list serve. It's not something i am actively involved in but this question inspired me enough that it drew me out of my shell. This yahoo group is also our local munch group, so i'm not super comfortable just tossing out emails to tons of folks i really don't know. But this topic struck a chord so i thought i would risk it. Below was a question someone asked of the group and below that, my answer. i thought i would share it here.
Q. What is the difference between a slave and a submissive??
A. This is an age old question. You're likely to find novels written about the subject and no two opinions are ever likely to be exactly the same. That's
one thing that i love about this lifestyle, there are no rules to
follow in relationships. The only rule is to follow where your heart takes you. As my Master calls me His slave i feel compelled to answer this question in my own way.
While i am unable to answer for anyone
else, i'll tell you how i view my own slavery. When i first came to
Master, i already had a servants heart and submitting to Him was really
the easy part for me. i work best when things are just black and white
"yes Master/no Master" and rules were clear and concise. He taught me
to deepen my submission by learning to submit to the things i didn't want to do. He pushed past my comfort zone in the hardest of times, knowing that in the end this is what's best for our relationship and i am here to please Him, it's what i wanted as well. That's not simply submission, that's slavery, that is putting His needs, His wants and Him above all else for the betterment of our relationship.
You know how they say "when momma ain't happy ain't no one happy?". Well, i learned quickly that when Master wasn't happy NO ONE was going to be happy. Master wasn't in this for fun, He was in this lifestyle
because He needed to be. i also learned that by putting Him first, by making
Him very happy, there was NOTHING He wouldn't do to make me happy in
return. Today because of the sacrifices i make, my love for Him, His
love for me and our devotion to our Master/slave relationship, we're
thriving. Yes, i screw up... TONS and everything isn't gummy bears and
tulips but the further deep you search within yourself, the harder your slavery is, the more rewarding it is, i don't mean in years to come either. i mean now, right now, because He or She will see it. He'll see how hard you're trying, if you're truly trying.
When i've been doing something so hard all day, say the hardest physical activity i can think of and i
just know He's going to give me a break, that's when i just know i'll have the night off to snooze. He'll hop in the shower and get out and point
to the floor, i'm shocked when He wants me on my knees in front of
Him. You know, those are the best times because i am reminded of my place and He'll decide when i have a night off. i get plenty of nights off when HE wants me to have them, not when i assume i'll have them! i gave my life to Him a long time ago because i wanted Him to have it, i am very happy so He must be doing something right. i believe i'm not just a slave, i'm His slave. =)
Thank you for reading.
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
Banners here also!
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