Q: About your bed. It is a masterful piece of construction, but a dungeon bed (in the master bedroom) is just that. Your families may not talk about your lifestyle but they have to know whats going on.
A: Hi and thank you, i think it's quite a lovely piece if i do say so myself! =) Before Master even began construction of the bed, He put a lot of forethought into the design of the bed. He also thought about the possibilities, although rare of visitors in the bedroom. So He was quite stealthy in His design, if you will. =)
If you go back and visit the blog, you'll notice in the 4th photo, the bed skirting is tucked up under the mattress to show off the attachment points. When that skirting is in it's proper position, nothing, including the chain that is always there, shows. Master had me order an extra long bed skirt just for that purpose.
Master gave me specific instructions when ordering bedding as well. Many, many measurements were taken by Master and countless hours of on line shopping was done by me. Unfortunately they aren't visible in any photos but at the base of nearly every other dowel on the head board there are large O-rings. Those are concealed by the mass of pillows and stuffed animals that adorn the bed on any given day.
The curtains really assist in covering up some of the main attachment points and huge eye-bolts. The bed is never left unmade as Master's parents show up unannounced and can be counted on to wander aimlessly at times. When they do turn up and we have unmentionables sitting out, every once in a while there might be a scramble to put a few things away, however!! =)
As for them knowing about our lifestyle, there is an element of truth to what you're saying. They don't know that we're leading an M/s or BDSM lifestyle of course. What they do know is that i defer to Master on every matter. There is no mistake made that Master is in charge of our relationship and that's the what makes us both very happy. The topic has been raised before with Master's Mom and i'm sure it's something that she's relayed to Master's Dad as well as His Sister.
So i'm not sure if they had any questions about the bed or not or anything else for that matter. If they did or if any of them ever came right out and asked us point blank, i believe Master and i would feel it would be time to tell the truth. It's always been my thinking that no one should ever ask a question in which aren't prepared to hear the answer.
Thank you so much for the terrific question!!
MD's treasure
WOW that is an awesome bed...!!! grat lbog too!
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Thanks abby! It was a labor of love. Master of course did all of the hard stuff but He did let me help. =)
DeleteThanks for the remark about the blog as well! i'm really happy you stopped by! =)
Make that blog!
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