Master and i have been hard at work pretty much all summer trying to get things done in our yard that have needed to be done for... well years actually. That has meant countless trips to Menards and as Master's Dad is really not able to help Him do all the heavy lifting anymore i am His helper. It's like a race against time, we have such a short time where the weather is nice enough to get things done outside more than anything we're racing against the sun.
Over the years i have a fair understanding of what Master requires when He's choosing building materials and He's even gotten to the point where He'll trust my judgement to a degree. Lately we've gotten railroad ties (they weigh 200lbs each) as they are infused with creosote, or landscaping blocks. None of this stuff is made out of feathers or foam, unfortunately. The funny thing is, when we pull up to get our load, just Master and i pop out of the truck. Master in His work gloves, me in my work gloves! Now, i did NOT help with the RR ties! A nice man with a fork truck and Master did that nasty job and lemme tell ya, it was horrid.
The interesting part about all this is that, should Master tell me "wait here" and He walks away for a moment nearly every time, i am asked if i need help. If He's with me, no one pays any attention to us because He's a pretty familiar face, as soon as He leaves me, well, i must be lost. Really though, i don't blame them because as soon as He walks away even if i am standing there in my work gloves holding my little pink tape measure, that i take everywhere we go, i instantly have that, "where did He go?" look on my face.
i can only imagine what the guys in the lumber yard must think when we load all of our own things though with me in my little skirts or mini dresses. Master and i have this knack for doing everything in the most God awful heat, so most times no one bothers us. i'm sure they must think that if we're dumb enough to get our supplies in 100 degree weather, they'll leave us alone. =)
Not only do we have precious little time to get things done, when we have days at home to work on things, lots of times our plans are foiled. These last few days, our plans have been shot, big time. Master and i were outside working and i had forgotten to take the phone outside. That's a big no no, really it's not a rule on Master's part, it's just something i think is important. When i realized what i had done, sure enough we'd missed several phone calls. Just that one time i forgot the phone, His family had been calling. Master's Mom was in the ER, long story short, she's had a stroke and this time it has affected her right side. Physically she's not too bad, although she's only standing and pivoting so i can't say for sure what's to come.
The biggest thing is her ability to swallow and they've placed a feeding tube. She'll go to a nursing home again for therapy. The thing is that last year (almost the same time of year) she just wasn't as healthy as she is right now. Now she's much stronger and she's starting from a better place physically. i spoke to her sister and when she started with the doom and gloom, i told her as much. There is much to look forward to this time and Master's Mom is an excellent patient, she really is. She listens, she works hard and more than anything wants to do well because she wants to be here with her family. Right now she's confused to time, but that's something she can get back with effort. She'll be okay, we just have to be patient. It's harder still to be patient with Master's Dad, therein lies the challenge. Oy! Give us strength! =)
This is one precious day we have home and here i am sitting inside at the computer not taking advantage of it, i gotta get outside!!!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Biz Page
On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
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Monday, July 30, 2012
Thursday, July 26, 2012
Formspring Question: The Bed
Q: About your bed. It is a masterful piece of construction, but a dungeon bed (in the master bedroom) is just that. Your families may not talk about your lifestyle but they have to know whats going on.
A: Hi and thank you, i think it's quite a lovely piece if i do say so myself! =) Before Master even began construction of the bed, He put a lot of forethought into the design of the bed. He also thought about the possibilities, although rare of visitors in the bedroom. So He was quite stealthy in His design, if you will. =)
If you go back and visit the blog, you'll notice in the 4th photo, the bed skirting is tucked up under the mattress to show off the attachment points. When that skirting is in it's proper position, nothing, including the chain that is always there, shows. Master had me order an extra long bed skirt just for that purpose.
Master gave me specific instructions when ordering bedding as well. Many, many measurements were taken by Master and countless hours of on line shopping was done by me. Unfortunately they aren't visible in any photos but at the base of nearly every other dowel on the head board there are large O-rings. Those are concealed by the mass of pillows and stuffed animals that adorn the bed on any given day.
The curtains really assist in covering up some of the main attachment points and huge eye-bolts. The bed is never left unmade as Master's parents show up unannounced and can be counted on to wander aimlessly at times. When they do turn up and we have unmentionables sitting out, every once in a while there might be a scramble to put a few things away, however!! =)
As for them knowing about our lifestyle, there is an element of truth to what you're saying. They don't know that we're leading an M/s or BDSM lifestyle of course. What they do know is that i defer to Master on every matter. There is no mistake made that Master is in charge of our relationship and that's the what makes us both very happy. The topic has been raised before with Master's Mom and i'm sure it's something that she's relayed to Master's Dad as well as His Sister.
So i'm not sure if they had any questions about the bed or not or anything else for that matter. If they did or if any of them ever came right out and asked us point blank, i believe Master and i would feel it would be time to tell the truth. It's always been my thinking that no one should ever ask a question in which aren't prepared to hear the answer.
Thank you so much for the terrific question!!
MD's treasure
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
TMI Tuesday!
Tell us about your bed!
1. What size (King, queen, full, twin)?
Our bed is a regular king size, not California king.2. What mattress construction (conventional springs, air bed, water bed, Tempurpedic-type)?
i am going to sound like a commercial here, ready set? Go! i believe that memory foam beds (NOT specifically Tempuredic just because paying for the name isn't worth the money) are a miracle. That being said, we have memory foam. Not only do we have memory foam, we have what i believe is the perfect combination of a memory foam mattress and topper. Master did an incredible amount of research prior to purchasing a mattress which resulted in an 8 inch memory foam mattress (3inches of memory foam/5inches of regular foam) and a 1.5 inch topper. What we sleep on is 4.5 inches of pure memory foam and we flip that little topper all the time, in theory we'll never have to replace our actual mattress because the 1.5 inch topper is taking all the wear and tear. So far 2 years later that remains totally true! It's one of the THE BEST purchases we've ever made and we've never been more comfortable. The total cost for both mattresses combined? Under $300! i just looked. =) That's my mattress rant.3. What type furniture (just a frame, headboard/footboard, canopy, trundle, etc)? Describe.
Master built our bed! He built us a dungeon bed headboard, foot board, canopy with curtains all around. He even built the curtain rods.
4. If your bed has headboard/footboard or bedposts, have you ever been tied to them? Ever tied anyone to them? For what purpose?
i have been tied to them more times than i can count, yes. i am leashed to the headboard very often and chained to the eye bolts on the underside of the bed as well. There was one occasion when i was gagged to the bedpost to a buttplug for a while.
As one of the main functions of our bed was that it be used for bondage, there are many attachment points. There are nearly more attachment points than i could name, as He affixed so many during construction. He uses them for various reasons, some for fun, some for punishment. He even suspended my legs and ankles the night He pierced me. That night He used many of the attachment points. There is also a removable beam for suspension that fits into the top canopy.
5. What kind of sheets (cotton, linen, silk, flannel)?
i love percale sheets, the sets i had of those were all queen however. Since we got the king bed i have 2 sets of 400count sateen sheets. They are nice and i got a great price on them.6. What kind of blankets (cotton, wool, thermal, electric)?
We aren't all that picky about blankets as long as they are soft. The one that we have on the bed at the moment is the one we've always called "the fuzzy". It was a gift to me from Master and then He promptly stole it from me. The only fair way to settle the argument was to put it on the bed where we had to share the blanket.7. What’s on top (bedspread, duvet,…)?
This is an area that causes me great inner turmoil. i love bed clothes and will and HAVE shopped on line and in stores for months, even years for the perfect comforter or quilt. Once in my life have i had the right one and i'll never have it again. Oh i'll find it but i can't afford them once i find them because the perfect sets (or so i think) would cost me thousands. This is also an area that for heaven knows why, Master indulges me. He's terribly patient and will allow me to shop endlessly. Right now i have a cheap and i do mean cheap quilt and matching shams and euro shams from, most are from Wal Mart. It's time to start looking again so it can be replaced, sometime ..... =)8. What kind of pillow (down, foam, fiberfill)?
Memory foam for sleeping. They take some getting used to but they are great for my headaches. We also love the gel pillows.
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Monday, July 23, 2012
Another Post From The Master
A couple weeks ago, My girl wrote a post about having friends over for some ribs. What she didn't mention was the main reason I'd been so eager to have them over. A couple weeks earlier, I'd gotten a hair up my ass and decided to build them a cross for their dungeon/bedroom. They'd given us a brand new carpet shampooer that they didn't have a use for, so we wanted to do something in return. Here is the story of the cross building, in pictures. There are lots more on flickr if you're interested in seeing them. If you're not my flickr friend, just ask and you will be.
~MD, Owner Of precious treasure
~MD, Owner Of precious treasure
Thursday, July 19, 2012
The Ride Home, Leashed
This week has seriously flown by in a blink of an eye. i wanted to write another quick post about our trip home from my class reunion, much earlier in the week. Here it is Thursday already and it feels like i've accomplished exactly nothing.
Because my hometown is only about 3 hours away and we had animals to care for, it was necessary for us to make the trek back home the same night. It's pretty much a sure bet that Master will have plans for the car ride, if we're going out of town.
Before we made the journey home though, we stopped for provisions! Master treated me to my very favorite chips in the whole wide world. Unfortunately, you can't buy them in our area so when we go to my hometown we try to pick some up. This time i nearly forgot until we stopped at a gas station and i saw them. i've been savoring them and i still have some. Then i saw this amazing little piggie >squeee< and thought of one my favorite people!!! So i asked Master to take a picture for her! =)
In the past He's used wrist and ankle cuffs with double ended snap hook. The quick release type, just for safety. At times He'll use a blindfold but this was a long trip and He chose not to use one.
Lately though He's been incorporating a leash and i really like it! We even bought a new leash while we were out of town this week but we didn't get a photo of that yet. It's awesome though, pink, shiny with little jewels on all over, just for me!!! =) i love the idea of being completely attached to Him. Sometimes i forget that i'm leashed though and try to get up and move and i am quickly reminded that i'm going no where without His consent first. For me it's the fastest way to be put in my place, i feel owned and loved, like He wants me as close as possible. He's simply saying that i'll leave His side when/if He says so. =)
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Because my hometown is only about 3 hours away and we had animals to care for, it was necessary for us to make the trek back home the same night. It's pretty much a sure bet that Master will have plans for the car ride, if we're going out of town.
In the past He's used wrist and ankle cuffs with double ended snap hook. The quick release type, just for safety. At times He'll use a blindfold but this was a long trip and He chose not to use one.
Lately though He's been incorporating a leash and i really like it! We even bought a new leash while we were out of town this week but we didn't get a photo of that yet. It's awesome though, pink, shiny with little jewels on all over, just for me!!! =) i love the idea of being completely attached to Him. Sometimes i forget that i'm leashed though and try to get up and move and i am quickly reminded that i'm going no where without His consent first. For me it's the fastest way to be put in my place, i feel owned and loved, like He wants me as close as possible. He's simply saying that i'll leave His side when/if He says so. =)
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
A Proper Apology
After i made my post on Sunday, Master was still upset with me. i didn't show Him nearly as much appreciation for taking me to my hometown and for all the effort He put forth in making it a wonderful day for me. It wasn't really only that, it was the fact that i gave all the energy i had to the day and the event and when it was time for Him, i was just done. i had nothing left and that was unacceptable. i knew it then but at that point it was too late.
Sunday, Master and i were dressed for the day, i left the bedroom to grab Him some shorts and when i came back in, Master was posed easily for me to see His cock so i did as i am supposed to do. i dropped to my knees and sucked. Sometimes i'm not as quick as i should be, but this time i didn't hesitate at all. Master attached a leashed to the collar and drug me over to the bed still sucking the entire time. He laid on the side of the bed and i knelt between His legs and i licked Him, sucked Him and rubbed Him until He came in my mouth. After He came He told me that in the future if i want to apologize to Him for any wrong doings, that is a good way to start.
Master and i both had quite a bit of work to do on our computers as well as much needed work to do outside so we worked on our computers for a couple more hours and right before we were headed outside, His parents called. They were going to come down and bring us a few vegetables they got from someone at church. We were in the bedroom again getting ready to head outside when Master said He liked my outfit and shoes for the day and as a matter of fact, He was pretty hard. He wanted to know if i thought He should use His pussy. So because i was already standing at the side of the bed, i just bent over face first! Which in retrospect wasn't the best idea, seeing that i was still wearing my glasses. =)
We had to hurry though because Master's Mom and Dad were on their way down to our house, or so we thought. As soon as we were done, Master said okay, hurry and wash up, they'll be here soon! So we rushed around like teenagers hoping not to get caught fooling around by their parents. Then an hour later when they weren't here yet Master called them and His Mom said, "Oh, I'm watching a movie, it doesn't get over until 8pm". >sigh<
That's okay, they brought us some zucchini and cucumber. A few days before that they had given us two purple peppers and green peppers as well as some banana peppers. Monday night Master grilled those babies up with some chicken breasts and they were amazing. (Not the cucumber blech).
We got our pond filled up and tried to get the fountain going but the fountain it appears is a goner. Last night we even had Master's best friend (who is a mechanic) look at it. It worked for a bit, just like when Master worked on it and then died shortly afterward. =( It's okay, the whole thing was totally free. We'll get something else, at some point.
Sunday was a good day! =)
MD's treasure
Sunday, Master and i were dressed for the day, i left the bedroom to grab Him some shorts and when i came back in, Master was posed easily for me to see His cock so i did as i am supposed to do. i dropped to my knees and sucked. Sometimes i'm not as quick as i should be, but this time i didn't hesitate at all. Master attached a leashed to the collar and drug me over to the bed still sucking the entire time. He laid on the side of the bed and i knelt between His legs and i licked Him, sucked Him and rubbed Him until He came in my mouth. After He came He told me that in the future if i want to apologize to Him for any wrong doings, that is a good way to start.
Master and i both had quite a bit of work to do on our computers as well as much needed work to do outside so we worked on our computers for a couple more hours and right before we were headed outside, His parents called. They were going to come down and bring us a few vegetables they got from someone at church. We were in the bedroom again getting ready to head outside when Master said He liked my outfit and shoes for the day and as a matter of fact, He was pretty hard. He wanted to know if i thought He should use His pussy. So because i was already standing at the side of the bed, i just bent over face first! Which in retrospect wasn't the best idea, seeing that i was still wearing my glasses. =)
We had to hurry though because Master's Mom and Dad were on their way down to our house, or so we thought. As soon as we were done, Master said okay, hurry and wash up, they'll be here soon! So we rushed around like teenagers hoping not to get caught fooling around by their parents. Then an hour later when they weren't here yet Master called them and His Mom said, "Oh, I'm watching a movie, it doesn't get over until 8pm". >sigh<
That's okay, they brought us some zucchini and cucumber. A few days before that they had given us two purple peppers and green peppers as well as some banana peppers. Monday night Master grilled those babies up with some chicken breasts and they were amazing. (Not the cucumber blech).
We got our pond filled up and tried to get the fountain going but the fountain it appears is a goner. Last night we even had Master's best friend (who is a mechanic) look at it. It worked for a bit, just like when Master worked on it and then died shortly afterward. =( It's okay, the whole thing was totally free. We'll get something else, at some point.
Sunday was a good day! =)
MD's treasure
Sunday, July 15, 2012
An Update
So quite obviously i haven't been posting on here as frequently as i should be or even as much as i would like to be. The simple answer to that is, we've been working outside and doing a lot more physical work than i'm used to. When we come inside or when i have free time, i'm just a pile of mush. That makes it so all my on line obligations take a back seat. i have emails that i still need to write, people that are waiting for things.... the list is somewhat long. We also have a DVD to make for M's sister that is going to take many, many hours and i've only got about 1/2 the pics scanned. He needs about 300 pics and i have 169, they need the DVD by August 10, and that is quickly approaching. Unfortunately, the calender doesn't stop just because i am tired or hurting. So either i pull myself up by my bootstraps or things keep sliding and the latter of the two really isn't an option. That DVD must get done and summer doesn't last forever so... ugh.
Last week Master and i dug this huge hole for a fountain pond. Before that went in however, a steel pole had to come out. That pole was being held in by two bags of sakrete. Not only did we dig it out alone, Master pulled it out with a truck of course but He and i lifted it onto the bed of the truck, just the two of us! HA! >flex< lulz Of course we pick the sunniest days to do this crap in, it's not even the heat, those times it was just the sun beating down on us. lol We love working hard and for "fatties" we work pretty hard!! haha Sometimes we're just not great planners for the times we work. Anyway, in one day, we got that pole out of the ground, the huge hole for the pond dug and the pond placed (and leveled). YAY us!!! Of course it was dark by the time we were done so we're pretty sure it's level! =) Master said we're going to have to go back out and make 100% sure it's level before we finish filling it with water.
So because we haven't been doing enough, Master told me that He didn't want me to regret my decision so He said He wanted me to go to my class reunion. It really took some thought so here's so i made the decision; He wasn't making me go and leaving it up to me, so i said okay, lets go to Goodwill. If i find a dress we'll go, if i don't we won't! It wasn't that simple really i was still thinking about going but the plan sounded good in my head. So on Wednesday we went to Goodwill and not only did i find this little black number that fit me like it was made for me, i found a jacket that looked like it was made as a matching jacket to the dress. Of course it wasn't but i got the whole outfit for under $9 and it was awesome! i just thought it must have been a sign, telling me that i was meant to go and Master really wanted me to go and He pretty much hates the trip, it's a long drive (3 hours) and a lot of money on gas just to see a bunch of people He doesn't know.
So yesterday He took me to my hometown, we had a late lunch with an old co-worker and her husband. She and i were inseparable and i miss her very much. Master took me shopping and bought me two dresses at Goodwill and it was 157 degrees in the store! i was pretty sure we were going to pass out. He took me to my very favorite cafe where i used to work, He got us frosted butterfly cookies and me a banana muffin and then He took me to Gordmans and bought me perfume!!!! =)
Then it was time to go to the reunion. i won't lie i was nervous because we were arriving late, we just went for the after hours "cocktail party". i couldn't have been happier with how it turned out and my best friend, was the first one to see Master and i standing near the door. i didn't tell her we were coming and she cried. We haven't seen each other in a very long time and if she thanked Master once she thanked Him a dozen times for bringing me to the reunion. There were pictures taken of all "the girls" in my class and it turned out very well.
i was completely wiped out on the ride home and Master couldn't have been more upset or frustrated with me. The excitement of the day has totally settled in my head and i can't blame Him. i on the other hand am so thankful for everything He's done for me, i just can't even express to Him how much it means to me. Every time i get to go to my home town i just get a little bit of my Mom to carry around for a while. The streets the places we went, i had that banana muffin on the way home last night and remembered how much she loved them. How she kept them in her freezer and ate one every Sunday. i got to see the store Annies that my Mom could easily spend a paycheck in, and i stared at that store the entire time we walked to the car. i could write for hours and not be able to even touch on everything i saw that brought me back to things i used to do with my Mom. Even seeing all my friends who spent countless hours with Mom and i was just so wonderful, as drunk as they were i felt like i really had friends again, if only for a few hours. Maybe leaving them was harder than even i knew.
Thank You Master. Just that one day was a gift of a life time.
i love You.
MD's treasure
Last week Master and i dug this huge hole for a fountain pond. Before that went in however, a steel pole had to come out. That pole was being held in by two bags of sakrete. Not only did we dig it out alone, Master pulled it out with a truck of course but He and i lifted it onto the bed of the truck, just the two of us! HA! >flex< lulz Of course we pick the sunniest days to do this crap in, it's not even the heat, those times it was just the sun beating down on us. lol We love working hard and for "fatties" we work pretty hard!! haha Sometimes we're just not great planners for the times we work. Anyway, in one day, we got that pole out of the ground, the huge hole for the pond dug and the pond placed (and leveled). YAY us!!! Of course it was dark by the time we were done so we're pretty sure it's level! =) Master said we're going to have to go back out and make 100% sure it's level before we finish filling it with water.
So because we haven't been doing enough, Master told me that He didn't want me to regret my decision so He said He wanted me to go to my class reunion. It really took some thought so here's so i made the decision; He wasn't making me go and leaving it up to me, so i said okay, lets go to Goodwill. If i find a dress we'll go, if i don't we won't! It wasn't that simple really i was still thinking about going but the plan sounded good in my head. So on Wednesday we went to Goodwill and not only did i find this little black number that fit me like it was made for me, i found a jacket that looked like it was made as a matching jacket to the dress. Of course it wasn't but i got the whole outfit for under $9 and it was awesome! i just thought it must have been a sign, telling me that i was meant to go and Master really wanted me to go and He pretty much hates the trip, it's a long drive (3 hours) and a lot of money on gas just to see a bunch of people He doesn't know.
So yesterday He took me to my hometown, we had a late lunch with an old co-worker and her husband. She and i were inseparable and i miss her very much. Master took me shopping and bought me two dresses at Goodwill and it was 157 degrees in the store! i was pretty sure we were going to pass out. He took me to my very favorite cafe where i used to work, He got us frosted butterfly cookies and me a banana muffin and then He took me to Gordmans and bought me perfume!!!! =)Then it was time to go to the reunion. i won't lie i was nervous because we were arriving late, we just went for the after hours "cocktail party". i couldn't have been happier with how it turned out and my best friend, was the first one to see Master and i standing near the door. i didn't tell her we were coming and she cried. We haven't seen each other in a very long time and if she thanked Master once she thanked Him a dozen times for bringing me to the reunion. There were pictures taken of all "the girls" in my class and it turned out very well.
i was completely wiped out on the ride home and Master couldn't have been more upset or frustrated with me. The excitement of the day has totally settled in my head and i can't blame Him. i on the other hand am so thankful for everything He's done for me, i just can't even express to Him how much it means to me. Every time i get to go to my home town i just get a little bit of my Mom to carry around for a while. The streets the places we went, i had that banana muffin on the way home last night and remembered how much she loved them. How she kept them in her freezer and ate one every Sunday. i got to see the store Annies that my Mom could easily spend a paycheck in, and i stared at that store the entire time we walked to the car. i could write for hours and not be able to even touch on everything i saw that brought me back to things i used to do with my Mom. Even seeing all my friends who spent countless hours with Mom and i was just so wonderful, as drunk as they were i felt like i really had friends again, if only for a few hours. Maybe leaving them was harder than even i knew.
Thank You Master. Just that one day was a gift of a life time.
i love You.
MD's treasure
Slave Vs. Submissive
i belong to a yahoo list serve. It's not something i am actively involved in but this question inspired me enough that it drew me out of my shell. This yahoo group is also our local munch group, so i'm not super comfortable just tossing out emails to tons of folks i really don't know. But this topic struck a chord so i thought i would risk it. Below was a question someone asked of the group and below that, my answer. i thought i would share it here.
Q. What is the difference between a slave and a submissive??
A. This is an age old question. You're likely to find novels written about the subject and no two opinions are ever likely to be exactly the same. That's one thing that i love about this lifestyle, there are no rules to follow in relationships. The only rule is to follow where your heart takes you. As my Master calls me His slave i feel compelled to answer this question in my own way.
While i am unable to answer for anyone else, i'll tell you how i view my own slavery. When i first came to Master, i already had a servants heart and submitting to Him was really the easy part for me. i work best when things are just black and white "yes Master/no Master" and rules were clear and concise. He taught me to deepen my submission by learning to submit to the things i didn't want to do. He pushed past my comfort zone in the hardest of times, knowing that in the end this is what's best for our relationship and i am here to please Him, it's what i wanted as well. That's not simply submission, that's slavery, that is putting His needs, His wants and Him above all else for the betterment of our relationship.
You know how they say "when momma ain't happy ain't no one happy?". Well, i learned quickly that when Master wasn't happy NO ONE was going to be happy. Master wasn't in this for fun, He was in this lifestyle
because He needed to be. i also learned that by putting Him first, by making Him very happy, there was NOTHING He wouldn't do to make me happy in return. Today because of the sacrifices i make, my love for Him, His love for me and our devotion to our Master/slave relationship, we're thriving. Yes, i screw up... TONS and everything isn't gummy bears and tulips but the further deep you search within yourself, the harder your slavery is, the more rewarding it is, i don't mean in years to come either. i mean now, right now, because He or She will see it. He'll see how hard you're trying, if you're truly trying.
When i've been doing something so hard all day, say the hardest physical activity i can think of and i
just know He's going to give me a break, that's when i just know i'll have the night off to snooze. He'll hop in the shower and get out and point to the floor, i'm shocked when He wants me on my knees in front of Him. You know, those are the best times because i am reminded of my place and He'll decide when i have a night off. i get plenty of nights off when HE wants me to have them, not when i assume i'll have them! i gave my life to Him a long time ago because i wanted Him to have it, i am very happy so He must be doing something right. i believe i'm not just a slave, i'm His slave. =)
Thank you for reading.
MD's treasure
Q. What is the difference between a slave and a submissive??
A. This is an age old question. You're likely to find novels written about the subject and no two opinions are ever likely to be exactly the same. That's one thing that i love about this lifestyle, there are no rules to follow in relationships. The only rule is to follow where your heart takes you. As my Master calls me His slave i feel compelled to answer this question in my own way.
While i am unable to answer for anyone else, i'll tell you how i view my own slavery. When i first came to Master, i already had a servants heart and submitting to Him was really the easy part for me. i work best when things are just black and white "yes Master/no Master" and rules were clear and concise. He taught me to deepen my submission by learning to submit to the things i didn't want to do. He pushed past my comfort zone in the hardest of times, knowing that in the end this is what's best for our relationship and i am here to please Him, it's what i wanted as well. That's not simply submission, that's slavery, that is putting His needs, His wants and Him above all else for the betterment of our relationship.
You know how they say "when momma ain't happy ain't no one happy?". Well, i learned quickly that when Master wasn't happy NO ONE was going to be happy. Master wasn't in this for fun, He was in this lifestyle
because He needed to be. i also learned that by putting Him first, by making Him very happy, there was NOTHING He wouldn't do to make me happy in return. Today because of the sacrifices i make, my love for Him, His love for me and our devotion to our Master/slave relationship, we're thriving. Yes, i screw up... TONS and everything isn't gummy bears and tulips but the further deep you search within yourself, the harder your slavery is, the more rewarding it is, i don't mean in years to come either. i mean now, right now, because He or She will see it. He'll see how hard you're trying, if you're truly trying.
When i've been doing something so hard all day, say the hardest physical activity i can think of and i
just know He's going to give me a break, that's when i just know i'll have the night off to snooze. He'll hop in the shower and get out and point to the floor, i'm shocked when He wants me on my knees in front of Him. You know, those are the best times because i am reminded of my place and He'll decide when i have a night off. i get plenty of nights off when HE wants me to have them, not when i assume i'll have them! i gave my life to Him a long time ago because i wanted Him to have it, i am very happy so He must be doing something right. i believe i'm not just a slave, i'm His slave. =)
Thank you for reading.
MD's treasure
Sunday, July 08, 2012
Something Special
Some weeks i really cut my posts close and this is one of them. The rule has been the same for quite some time now, i have to write at least two times a week and usually that's not a problem but there are times when we've got a little more going on than usual and i get behind. This has been a little busier time lately so i'm scrambling now to get this post in under the wire.
Master and i had a lovely afternoon and evening with friends and Master made a delicious meal, grilling some bbq ribs. They were totally amazing and everyone loved them, He put His famous rub on the meat and i think this time they were even more tender than ever before! =)
The weather has finally given us a little bit of a break but it was still pretty warm outside all afternoon and only really cooled off when the sun went down. Unfortunately that's right when the party broke up.
At night when i reflect on the day i am always thankful for having enough food or thankful for Master or a roof over our heads. Today while i am forever thankful for those things, i am especially thankful for our good friends, had we never met them our lives would surely be lacking something so very special.
i had better scoot off here and get this posted!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Master and i had a lovely afternoon and evening with friends and Master made a delicious meal, grilling some bbq ribs. They were totally amazing and everyone loved them, He put His famous rub on the meat and i think this time they were even more tender than ever before! =)
The weather has finally given us a little bit of a break but it was still pretty warm outside all afternoon and only really cooled off when the sun went down. Unfortunately that's right when the party broke up.
At night when i reflect on the day i am always thankful for having enough food or thankful for Master or a roof over our heads. Today while i am forever thankful for those things, i am especially thankful for our good friends, had we never met them our lives would surely be lacking something so very special.
i had better scoot off here and get this posted!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Friday, July 06, 2012
Looking Forward To The Hump
One great thing about this heat wave is that at 10pm the pool temp is
still over 90 degrees. Our pool has never been that warm and it's
wonderful! Master and i have used the pool more this year than we ever
have and it's still early July! That's saying something, it's either
really hot (which it is) or we're actually quite active (which we have
been)!
Master's parents came down for the 4th and we put up an awning as well as our table top umbrella. Master also put a couple of fans and it was of course very hot but tolerable for them. i'm not sure why but Master's Dad has some aversion to sitting in the sun for even 30 seconds. i went inside for something and apparently my seat had more shade because he took my seat and wasn't about to give it back! HA!
No matter how hard i try to be prepared for food blunders when Master's dad comes down, it seems like i'm never quite prepared enough. i meant to have utensils in all the containers and on all the plates and i failed to do so, if there's no fork as far as His dad is concerned his hand works just fine! Live and learn for next time, it's a lesson learned, be more prepared! =)
i think it was two Sunday's ago Master's parents brought their bikes down to us to borrow. It might have been three Sundays ago, i can't be sure. Either way, we've been out a couple times now and it's taking some getting used to for both Master and i. The seat on the bike i'm riding is too small for me and i really think i'm going to need something different, after only a couple times out i'm really sore, so something needs to change =(. We're just really in uncharted territory and while it's only a couple of bicycles, for us it's a whole new world of fitness that we've been trying to open up for years now. Master isn't quite as sure of the whole thing as i am, but i really believe this is within our grasp! While it's exciting to think about losing some weight and actually feeling better, it's getting started and getting over that first hump that is the real challenge. i'm looking forward to the hump! =)
i hope everyone in blog land is having a great Friday!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
Master's parents came down for the 4th and we put up an awning as well as our table top umbrella. Master also put a couple of fans and it was of course very hot but tolerable for them. i'm not sure why but Master's Dad has some aversion to sitting in the sun for even 30 seconds. i went inside for something and apparently my seat had more shade because he took my seat and wasn't about to give it back! HA!
No matter how hard i try to be prepared for food blunders when Master's dad comes down, it seems like i'm never quite prepared enough. i meant to have utensils in all the containers and on all the plates and i failed to do so, if there's no fork as far as His dad is concerned his hand works just fine! Live and learn for next time, it's a lesson learned, be more prepared! =)
i think it was two Sunday's ago Master's parents brought their bikes down to us to borrow. It might have been three Sundays ago, i can't be sure. Either way, we've been out a couple times now and it's taking some getting used to for both Master and i. The seat on the bike i'm riding is too small for me and i really think i'm going to need something different, after only a couple times out i'm really sore, so something needs to change =(. We're just really in uncharted territory and while it's only a couple of bicycles, for us it's a whole new world of fitness that we've been trying to open up for years now. Master isn't quite as sure of the whole thing as i am, but i really believe this is within our grasp! While it's exciting to think about losing some weight and actually feeling better, it's getting started and getting over that first hump that is the real challenge. i'm looking forward to the hump! =)
i hope everyone in blog land is having a great Friday!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
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