Master just walked into the room with my wallet and said, where's your drivers license? That lead to Him telling me that He was just reading something on FetLife about the never ending dispute regarding a slave's privacy. Some people on that thread contend that a slave should be allowed to have a private PIN, private email password... the list is really endless.
i have written about this before and the result is always the same. Master has access to everything of mine and as it would appear we believe that is the very best way for a slave to remain as transparent as possible. When Master and i first got together and i was writing long hand, Master made it very clear that my journals would not be private. Instead of feeling violated, i thought it was quite a burden lifted. i had never been in any relationship where there were no secrets, romantic or otherwise. Whatever i was going to say to anyone, i was going to say to Him, so i better get used to it, immediately. For me, there was no better way to open up than through writing, so as i've mentioned in the beginning i wrote to Master.
To this day i don't think that He's ever gone back and read those journals in their entirety. There's really no point, after the first few months they became quite repetitive, i'm sure. For me it was just an exercise in exposure and allowing myself to be completely vulnerable. That has carried over into just about every area in our relationship but one of themost difficult things is when someone says "can you keep a secret?".
What is the best thing to say when someone says that? Well for me this happens most often with my sister and i've told her in no uncertain terms that whatever she tells me, she is indirectly telling both my Husband and i. Even if it's not even important enough to bother telling Master, it's important that she understands i won't keep a secret from Master. Sure if it's something "girlie", then that's something Master doesn't need (or probably want =) ) to know, but if He were to inquire about my conversation with my sister, there's nothing to hide from Him. i understand when i tell someone their secret is perfectly safe with me, as long as they realize i am an open book to my Husband, i might be risking a confidant, that's a risk i am willing to take.
Some people might seriously think my priorities are out of balance and that putting so much of my faith and trust in one area isn't healthy. It's my opinion that if you're going to jump, jump in both feet first!
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
Banners here also!
Hmmm...I would relish a conversation with the person who thought your priorities were out of balance. :)
ReplyDeleteYou might enjoy it.... i bet THEY wouldn't! =p
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Honestly, those who think its okay to keep things from their significant other are a bit out of wack, in my opinion. The only acceptable reason I can think of to withhold something, is if you're planning a surprise where they're gonna find out anyway. Even in my vanilla relationships, I've never kept things from my boyfriends. Total honesty!
ReplyDeletei happen to agree with you completely! There are those however who think that it's unhealthy to be completely transparent. They're arguments have never made any sense to me, whatsoever!
DeleteHA! Master would kill me if He saw this comment. They're = their. Forgive me all you grammar police!
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This is actually one of the things I most enjoy about being owned, the fact that I don't have to choose what to reveal and what to keep to myself, and subsequently keep track of those choices.
ReplyDeleteYou make a good point. When complete honesty is demanded, there is no gray area as to what you're expected to share or not share. i love the simplicity that this lifestyle sometimes offers.
DeleteI agree with you completely, the freedom of transparency is magical.
ReplyDeleteYour priorities look just fine from over here! ;)
ReplyDeleteIt's the same thing here, as there's nothing Serafina would withhold from me. Whether it's a D/s or M/s or purely vanilla relationship, there's no place for secrets and little games.