There must be a point in an M/s relationship where the slave can become too dependent on his or her Dom/me (i know i have written about this before.) Lately i have to wonder if there haven't been times when i come close to that point. In fact, i know there are things that i know i could do on my own but i wait for Master for one reason or another. Sometimes i wait because it might be something that i just don't want to take a chance on breaking or doing wrong. So i put the project aside for Him, when in fact i could have or even should have done it myself. Sometimes i ask Master about something that i am 99% sure of the answer but because there is just that 1% chance i'll be wrong, i ask anyway. Assuming isn't in my job description.
Just how far should we go before we rely 100% on our Master's and their decisions, before we're stripped of almost any decision making ability of our own. There is such a fine line with Master and i because we live together and do everything or almost everything together. We are just rarely apart so it's gotten to a point that i ask Him about nearly everything when i know in the past i could have done more and did do more, much more, on my own. Are we to a point now that it might be somewhat dangerous?
This brings me to the topic at hand. i used to be a very quick thinker, i did my best thinking in a rush made my best decisions when things were hectic. For a part time second income job, i worked as a cafe manager and my favorite part of the day was dinner or lunch rush. It was a blast to be super busy. That having been said, in the past i never would have flinched had the following happened, eleven years ago.
Yesterday morning, i was making toast and as i turned away to get the jelly out of the frig, the toast caught fire in the toaster. All i did was shout for Master to come to the kitchen, that was my first and really only reaction. He called out to me that He couldn't get out to the kitchen quickly and told me that i had to deal with it and then immediately asked me what i would do if He wasn't home. i unplugged the toaster and the flame went out. The crisis was really over quite quickly but it could have been a disaster as the flame was at least 5 inches out of the appliance. The entire house was full of smoke and my first thoughts always go to my bird, so i opened up the house, of course.
i keep wondering if i had been home alone if i would have reacted differently and faster. When Master and i go to work at the church i know what to do on my own and i am able to work without His assistance. There are many things i do here at home without asking for His help so of course i am not rendered immobile by any stretch of the imagination. This was just one instance where i was shocked at my first reaction and i think He was as well.
i guess in answering my own question, there is definitely a fine line where the slave can be too dependent on the owner in some situations perhaps. He or she has to maintain some autonomy in order to function for safety's sake. That's what i've come up with.
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In my opinion, the slave must always have autonomy! but his first thought must take into account the opinion of the master. You have to know what the master wants, and act accordingly.
ReplyDeleteThus, the slave always knows what to do, and when you're not sure, try putting yourself in the master. What would make the master? What is it that you would like to master?
This fits all. From what, in your absence, you have to dress up you have to do and feel.
Thanks Cybtzar,
ReplyDeletei agree with you, a slave should have autonomy and think of what their Master wants. That should certainly help us make the right decisions when faced with difficult situations.
Thank you! =)
I have an instantly positive gut reaction when I talk about being submissive. It resonates within me.
ReplyDeleteThere are so many versions of slavery and I have a difficult time grappling what that means and how does that play out. There are some aspects that I strongly disagree with so I wonder how much of my submission is perceived as slavery?
i think the only thing that matters with regard to your submission and slavery is how it's perceived by you and your Master. You're right, there are just too many things that one person might deem as submissive behavior and another may seem as being extremely slave-like. i love saying there are just no rules to this lifestyle and this is a fine example. =)
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