Continued from the previous post. The same reader has asked the following questions:
Q: You have mentioned having talks about your Master's controlling behavior with His mum, are you "out" to your families about your BDSM Lifestyle?
A: We are not out to our families, no. Master's best friend who is not involved in the lifestyle at all, knows everything about us. We don't hide the fact that Master is certainly the decision maker and the head of the household, however. Master's Mom called this past week to ask if i could sub for their card party and i was quite clear that i would have to check "with the boss" to see if we had anything going on and see if it would be okay. That was not out of the ordinary to her as she didn't skip a beat when she said "oh sure, just call me back after you've talked to Him." Any chance i get with her or my sister i am quick to reaffirm the fact that we are happy with this arrangement.
Q: You frequently post pics of yourself on your blog, are you an exhibitionist by nature?
A: First i'll start off by saying i am shocked that this is the first time i've been asked this question! =) i would have thought it would have come up long before now! hahaha
The decision whether or not to post pictures nude pics of me on the blog was one Master toiled over for a very long time. It was actually a decision that He allowed me to have a say in, He allowed me to weigh in on quite heavily as it was my face that was going to be plastered all over the internet. =) my opinion was eh... if You think people will like 'em post 'em! If you go on that right there, you might say there is a bit of exhibitionist blood in me after all. i actually don't like to look at the nude photos though, so ... hmmmm. Go figure.
Q: Are you ordered to do that by your Master?:
A: Master posts the pictures on the blog and He usually lets me help Him choose which ones He posts.... usually. Sometimes He posts pictures that i totally hate and if i had a choice i wouldn't show them to anyone and i'd rather crawl in a hole. i think He loves that. =)
Q: Do you ever worry about any of your vanilla relations seeing you on line?
A: Ya know, i used to think about that all the time. When Master started putting up more and more pictures on Flikr and we started making clips, i thought about it a lot. Now though i think that if someone were to see me or Google "precious treasure" and happen to come up with one of our links i guess it's time for them to know the real me. It's not the ideal way for someone to find out and i certainly wouldn't want them to see me in all my glory but at least once in for all they would know who we were.
Q: One of the biggest complaints on Fetlife is not getting enough control, do you ever feel this way?
A: No, i really don't. Even though i'm really not a fan of the term, i would view that as "topping from the bottom" in the worst way. i mean i understand wanting more from your significant other and wanting more out of your relationship but that comes in time, not from demanding, whining, complaining or simply quitting because your Dominant isn't giving the exact amount of control you're seeking at the time. It's all about communication and willingness to submit to every single desire your Dom has. As soon as they recognize our true desire to serve them, the more confidence they'll have to assert their Absolute Control over us. i am a firm believer that subs and slaves are far too quick to point a finger first and then dive under the covers when it's time to take the blame. If we're to own up to more mistakes and allow those Doms to actually Dominate, we might find them on top sooner than we ever thought possible.
i too am very guilty of every single thing i have just spoken about. The important thing is that i recognize it and i'm working on it, but that doesn't mean much unless i remind myself of my short comings, and do it often.
More great questions to come! Thanks again!
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
Banners here also!
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