It's amazing that we had to set our clocks ahead last night. We didn't even have a winter this year and i know everyone says that's fine with them. i'm not sure how i'll feel about it once the mosquitoes and the vast array of other bugs pop up and we can't get rid of them though. We never got that good deep freeze we needed. Anyway it just seems so early for spring i guess, it's over 60 degrees here today!
Master seems like He's feeling much better and i'm really glad of that. i'm hoping He'll be back to what is normal for *Him* soon! hahaha!!! =p
So here's another good one from the chat room;
This one i just let slide right off my back because it was SO stupid but i thought it might give something to think about. Again the general consensus was agreeable to this statement. Women in all relationships should have an escape plan. Be it a secret credit card or a bank account with a little money stashed away. If the relationship is strictly on line they should certainly already have another user ID in place so they can delete the one they have been using and continue on with their on line life, should this relationship go south. Some thought another good idea, EVEN in a long term marriage, is that you should have a good friend or family member to go to, set up IN ADVANCE, "just in case".
This is my theory:
People wonder why so many relationships fail when they are entered into with that type of attitude and lack of trust. Of course you're not going to have a success in your partnership if you don't look at it as such. If you go into a relationship as you against me, you will never become one and the trust just can't exist. Whatever happened to a little vulnerability? Whatever happened to falling in love and jumping in feet first and taking a chance on love? That's what our friends and family are there for, we're bound to make mistakes in life but we have to count on them to pick up the pieces!
Of course there's always that literal person out there who is going to take me completely at my word. i'm not saying go into every relationship with blinders on, i'm simply saying take a chance by truly loving someone. Seriously this whole needing to have a way out and keeping secret accounts, to me is really lying to your partner. It's almost blatantly saying that you have no faith that your relationship will stand the test of time and you're selling yourself short. i believe that if you know you have a way out, you just won't give everything you've got. Why should you? If you're not sure what you would do or where you might live, if your relationship failed, you'd work your tail off to make it work. In the end you're so very thankful you did because there's a loving and successful relationship to show from all that work and devotion. That's my theory anyway. =)
i'm off to take a walk on this lovely day.
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
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I would think one of the most exciting things about being a slave would be having a secret account and being prepared to leave at the first sign of difficulty or when something didn't go your way.
ReplyDeleteIf you keep posting things like this my eyes will seriously be stuck so far in the back of my head I'll need a blow job...literally...to pop them back out.
I always had that feeling as well. I think when you start to make that escape route for yourself is when you see things starting to slide into abuse and you know you may need a way out.
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I have pooled our accounts since the beginning, much to the chagrin of many people we know. You have to start with trust if you expect it to grow.
Conina~
ReplyDeleteAdmittedly, this way of thinking doesn't work for everyone. Like you, Master and i pooled our money in the very beginning. i moved away from my home town so i closed my accounts. He put my name on His accounts immediately. i can't even put into words what this one act, meant to me.
It was much more than adding me to a bank account. He was telling me that He trusted me with His life and home. He was saying that He expected us to work and had no doubt that i was going to be here long enough to make a significant change in His life. We ordered checks and there was no doubt in my mind that this Man meant business.
i'm happy to see that i'm not the only one out there who thinks that sometimes throwing caution to the wind isn't always the silliest thing in the world! =)
Currently, Sir and I have separate account, and separate lives. But I'm honest with him about what I have. When we get to a point in our lives where we can live together and really start to make a home for ourselves, I definitely would not keep anything secret. Part of being in that relationship is trust. And if after everything things really weren't working, I'd want to trust my partner that if the decision was made to make a break of it, there wouldn't be a NEED for a secret escape route.
ReplyDeleteLea~
ReplyDeletei don't think it could work very well if you weren't living together or it would be a bit harder anyway. The thing is that the trust and expectation of longevity is there. i think that's the most important investment right there, it's not of money at all, the best investment is of faith. Faith that your relationship will in fact stand the test of time! =)