Last night Master's Mom called and asked us if we wanted to go out for dinner. She's always alone on Saturday night as my Father in law refuses to give up his part time job, so of course we said we would be happy to go. These evenings out usually turn out to be good conversation, we're not the type of people who rush into the restaurant order our food, scarf it down and fly out as though the place is ablaze. We don't have impatient young ones either so naturally that makes all the difference. It's not just people with families that do this though, plenty of couples of all ages are hurried as well. It's really quite incredible when you're paying attention to it, how many people rush through an evening meal, it's a wonder they even tasted it, let alone enjoyed it.
So we had a nice meal and a nice conversation. Master and His Mom used to argue a lot, she has always been very disagreeable but the older she gets the more i see Him letting things slide. It's very difficult for Him but it's a necessary evil. i mentioned to Master last week that every time i talk to her on the phone she argues with everything i say or disagrees with me just to be the opposition. me: i heard it's supposed to snow Friday. Her: No, i think it's supposed to snow Sunday. So not only is she opposing me, she's not even sure of her argument, when she says "i think".
Master offered me a great explanation of why she does this and it really gave me good insight. She must know more than everyone else and by me giving information i am one-upping-her. If i am not giving her the upper hand and saying "have you heard the weather?" or "do you know if we're getting snow?" then i am automatically putting her on the defensive. This is almost a no win situation for me because there's no way that i could plan out my questions that carefully. Confrontation is likely going to occur unless i am critically cautious and as i can't do that all that time, i will have to take my chances. There is never a time when i intentionally oppose her however.
Now armed with this knowledge it also explains a bit more about the control issues she has with my Father in law. They will and do argue about everything and i mean everything. That is the conversation we had on the way home. She and Master had some banter about control and she challenged Master about control in His relationships. Master's Mom said that He was way too controlling. This was a great opportunity for me to speak up! i said that yes He is controlling but that's the way things work best for us and that's the way we like it. It's not just about control, i don't want to make the decisions in our home and Master popped up and said a household can't run well when two people are vying control, period. Of course this put her on the defensive about her own marriage and the way she treats her husband.
What was good about last night was the fact that Master and i had a small opportunity to tell her that what she sees as an imbalance of control or misuse of power is really a happy marriage. She may not remember it today and it's not the first time she's heard it but the more times we tell her perhaps the more she might just see that there can be control without anger or cruelty. i'm happy with every chance we get to talk to her about how we live, she should know that we're happy as a couple and that this is working for us. It was a good night.
i hope you're all enjoying your Sunday afternoon.
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
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I think that might be the best post title you've ever come up with. I love it. :)
ReplyDeleteThank You Master! =)
ReplyDeleteThis was an interesting post that really got me thinking about the giving up of control on a day to day basis. I really do believe it leads to a happier relationship. I bet your Mother in law already see's that in your marriage but doesn't want to admit it out loud.
ReplyDeleteBTW, I changed my address to http://underhisthumb-db.blogspot.com/ so you you will need to unfollow & refollow to have me show up on your blogroll. I tried to email you about through blogger but I can never tell if those things work.