Last night Master's family was over for dinner. It's always a balancing act for us when they are here. During the winter time, Master always keeps the leather collar on me so i don't take it off until we either see them pulling in the drive way or we hear a knock on the door. Last night it was a teeny tiny barely audible knock on the door and i had to dash out of the kitchen and down the hall way to take it off and stash the collar in the bed room.
In the summer months Master generally puts the eternity collar on me and keeps it on due to swimming. But seeing that there is obviously none of that in the winter, the leather collar is His preference. So there is just a little more to be aware of, something i have become very used to dealing with and no big deal. When they are here, however there are things that i (we) have to change my routine to accommodate. i am not allowed to leave Master's presence without permission. That makes it really hard when things come up and everyone is around and i need to dash out of the room for, whatever. It happens all the time, think about all the things you have to leave any particular room for at any given time. Just think about how many times you dash from room to room in a days time. It's a ton. i (try) to combine my trips, if i know i have to leave the kitchen and go to the back of the house or basement, i try to get all the things i need at once. It's to serve several purposes but for the most part, so i don't have to say to Master "may i have permission to leave Your presence?", over and over and over every single time i need to leave a room because i say it probably hundreds of times a day.
So when we have company, not asking to leave the room is tough, nearly impossible, without actually asking. i say stuff to Him like, "okay, i'm gunna run and grab --this--" and He'll nod. Either way, we make it work but by the end of the night, it's pretty exhausting. Changing a routine that we follow for a few hours doesn't seem like it should be that big of a deal i think for me i'm just not sure that i haven't screwed up royally, lol.
The other thing of course is eating without permission. i'm never allowed to eat without permission. So once everyone has food, especially Master some how i'll wait for a tap on the leg a nod or something. But every once in a while, He'll forget. Then i'm toast. Then what do i do? Sit there and wait? Then i draw attention to myself lol, cause His Mom ALWAYS says something!! LOL i guess in a way that's a good thing that will at least draw His attention to me not eating hahaha!!
Master told me a story once of a Dom who took his slave out for dinner once, they were talking away and having a nice time and all of a sudden the Dom looked over at her and he was almost done with his dinner and noticed that he never told her she could eat!!! He was like OMG EAT!! HAHA Master's never done that to me, He's forgotten to tell me to eat before, but never waited quite that long!! =)
So we had a nice time last night, we've gotten the kinks worked out and everything runs smoothly on the surface and no one is the wiser as to what goes on here. Everyone has a good time and once everyone leaves the collar goes right back on and we settle right back into our comfortable routine.
We played games until after 1am, we played this new game called Dicecapades, it was fun and Master won. Master nearly always wins. Pfft. =p
Today i think we're just having a nice quiet Saturday, it's lovely outside and maybe i can talk Master into a walk. We'll see.
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
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Changing or adapting the "rules/routines" to accomodate social situations really can be stressful...but at the same time sorta hot :-) Brings on subspace for me when others might not have a clue exactly how "Owned" I really am.
ReplyDeleteI go thru this also mainly when mom and dad arrive for the MONTH argh, I love seeing them but I dread how vanilla we go.
ReplyDeletebe good email me on your tank!! tell me how its going..:)
hugs
starla
www.bdsm-gear.com
Hawk~
ReplyDeleteIt's pretty cool having this huge secret from people at times. While it is stressful you're right it can be hot too, knowing that we're the only ones in the whole world who know our secret and our dynamic. That's a great way to look at it. The next time we have everyone over i hope i remember to look at it that way, it'll make it just a little easier i think!
Thank you!! =)
Starla~
ReplyDeletei can't even begin to imagine having to change our ways for an entire month, i think that Master would go insane!!! It's one thing to change things up a bit for a few hours or a day or so but a month??? Whew!!! At least they take a trip to the store for a few hours once in a while hahah!!
i'll mail you soon! =)