Jack's Blowjob Lessons By Jack Hutson
i was contacted by Jack a couple months ago to review his book. Now that the holidays are over and i actually had time to finish it, i'm excited to post my review!
Some advice to the reader before you even open the book, brace yourself. This guy is no Don Juan. He isn't a smooth talker, he tells it like it is and it's not all candy and roses. To be honest, you, me and anyone else giving a BJ doesn't give the best one, we're not perfect. All he does is break the news in a very rough fashion. He tells us something that we already know but really didn't want to hear. In my opinion for the very beginning of the book, he's too rough, he should take some time to draw the reader in, he's a bit too off putting. He should remember that he's writing (for the most part) for women and we need to feel a kinship to our author, at least i do.
Now all that having been said, Jack is comical and even though he doesn't make a quick connection with the reader what he does do is earn your respect. This guy knows what he wants and you immediately know that if you do what he's saying YOU WILL IMPROVE, of that there is no doubt. He knows his stuff, he knows what feels good. How do i know? i don't, i'm a woman, but he sure is convincing. He isn't just talking out of the side of his face though, he is detailed enough and schooled (through experience) enough that should you follow his steps, you will give a better blow job and improve your relationships.
A little bit about relationships and Jack's take on that. This part was important enough for me to mention. It is very obvious to me that Jack writes for the short term relationship, date or even a hook-up. It would have been quite refreshing to read more for the long term relationship and married couples. There weren't very many references to keeping your relationship fresh and new, the bulk of the book seemed to refer to the newness of hooking up. He talks a lot about creating an environment that is pleasing candles, music, wine etc. One could certainly tell that this was written from a single person's perspective or someone with no children. Again though, this is "The book" if you want to learn how to give the perfect blow job! No matter what else is included!!!
i will only very briefly mention the proofreading. If you're a stickler for grammar and spelling you might be a bit turned off seeing errors in a published manuscript, if not then you'll be fine. For the price, $47.00, one would expect a thoroughly edited book.
i disliked the section by his friend Tanya J., immensely. i thought it gave a very cheap turn on the book and it wasn't needed at all. She did say one thing that i found noteworthy, don't be afraid to be a slut for your man! It really is what he wants. No matter what anyone has ever told you, don't believe it, he wants a slut in the bedroom. Jack builds up enough trust from his reader at the point where they enter her section that he could have easily (and should have) added this himself. It would have been much more credible and more respectable.
Having read the bulk of my review, one might think that i really didn't care for the book. You would be mistaken. Jack does what he has set out to do! He gives the ultimate blow job lesson and he makes no excuses for loving a great blow job himself. i even found a kinship with Jack because he comes off as a bit of a dominant character. Now seeing that this is the lifestyle i lead it's much easier for me to accept his off handed remarks. Where as others might just see him as being a complete jerk, i know it's very easy for a vanilla to confuse dominance for chauvinism. It's a very fine line Jack's walking and it was one i was comfortable with. A purely vanilla girl might not be.
i have saved the best part for last! Jack is so spot on with this he deserves a standing ovation for this from every man on the face of the earth! To anyone who has ever or will ever give a blow job: Attitude is everything! If you're not loving it, neither is he. /clap If i learned anything from this book, it's that right there! There is much to be learned about giving a good blow job but that right there is the place to start!
Well done Jack, well done.
Jack's Blowjob Lessons- How To Give a Great Blowjob
Thank you Jack for the opportunity to review your book, it was my pleasure to give you an unbiased review in exchange for a copy of your manuscript.
MD's treasure
Some advice to the reader before you even open the book, brace yourself. This guy is no Don Juan. He isn't a smooth talker, he tells it like it is and it's not all candy and roses. To be honest, you, me and anyone else giving a BJ doesn't give the best one, we're not perfect
Now all that having been said, Jack is comical and even though he doesn't make a quick connection with the reader what he does do is earn your respect. This guy knows what he wants and you immediately know that if you do what he's saying YOU WILL IMPROVE, of that there is no doubt. He knows his stuff, he knows what feels good. How do i know? i don't, i'm a woman, but he sure is convincing. He isn't just talking out of the side of his face though, he is detailed enough and schooled (through experience) enough that should you follow his steps, you will give a better blow job and improve your relationships.
A little bit about relationships and Jack's take on that. This part was important enough for me to mention. It is very obvious to me that Jack writes for the short term relationship, date or even a hook-up. It would have been quite refreshing to read more for the long term relationship and married couples. There weren't very many references to keeping your relationship fresh and new, the bulk of the book seemed to refer to the newness of hooking up. He talks a lot about creating an environment that is pleasing candles, music, wine etc. One could certainly tell that this was written from a single person's perspective or someone with no children. Again though, this is "The book" if you want to learn how to give the perfect blow job! No matter what else is included!!!
i will only very briefly mention the proofreading. If you're a stickler for grammar and spelling you might be a bit turned off seeing errors in a published manuscript, if not then you'll be fine. For the price, $47.00, one would expect a thoroughly edited book.
i disliked the section by his friend Tanya J., immensely. i thought it gave a very cheap turn on the book and it wasn't needed at all. She did say one thing that i found noteworthy, don't be afraid to be a slut for your man! It really is what he wants. No matter what anyone has ever told you, don't believe it, he wants a slut in the bedroom. Jack builds up enough trust from his reader at the point where they enter her section that he could have easily (and should have) added this himself. It would have been much more credible and more respectable.
Having read the bulk of my review, one might think that i really didn't care for the book. You would be mistaken. Jack does what he has set out to do! He gives the ultimate blow job lesson and he makes no excuses for loving a great blow job himself. i even found a kinship with Jack because he comes off as a bit of a dominant character. Now seeing that this is the lifestyle i lead it's much easier for me to accept his off handed remarks. Where as others might just see him as being a complete jerk, i know it's very easy for a vanilla to confuse dominance for chauvinism. It's a very fine line Jack's walking and it was one i was comfortable with. A purely vanilla girl might not be.
Well done Jack, well done.
Jack's Blowjob Lessons- How To Give a Great Blowjob
Thank you Jack for the opportunity to review your book, it was my pleasure to give you an unbiased review in exchange for a copy of your manuscript.
MD's treasure
Thank you so much for the reviewing this book. I had seen it and considered purchasing it until I saw the price and funny enough, until I saw it was co written with a woman. I already know a woman's perspective and surely don't want to pay for another's. But mainly it was the exorbitant price.
ReplyDeleteAnother thing that I was curious about is that it seems to me in my own experiences that men don't necessarily like the same thing. So maybe what Jack likes as far as technique goes another man may hate. The other thing I thought is that with my own Master I have really very little control in how I'm doing it. He controls that as well and believe you me if I'm doing something not in the manner he wants/likes it he lets directs me to exactly how he does.
I would be curious to know if your Master thinks your "skills" improved after reading the book.
I do whole heartedly believe in that bottom line though. Attitude IS everything! ;)
Renee'
ReplyDeleteYou bring up a couple of great points!
To be fair, Tonya's portion of the book is quite short so don't let that be a determining factor in your purchase. Jack refers to her for one specific thing (deep throating) that he feels as a man he isn't qualified to speak about. Be that as it may, i personally didn't care for her section. Call it personal opinion, call it whatever you will, i was unimpressed, at best. But that was just me, the information she offers isn't sub par i'm sure it's perfectly adequate.
As to your second question, i'm very happy your asked! You're right, all men don't like the same things for sure. In this area though, Jack is VERY well versed and is quite thorough. While every man has a different fetish and fantasy. How we pleasure them through the act of fellatio is really explained so well in this book.
He gives you different things to try so what might not work for one man, might work for another. Again attitude is everything and better still talk to your partner, ask him what he likes and what he doesn't like.
i agree that the book is quite costly at $47.00 but if you feel you could use some improvement, it's an investment that just might be worth it's weight in gold.
As far as Master's reaction, i can't speak to that just yet. i've only just finished and given Him only one blow job! More to report soon, i hope!
The most work i needed was attitude and that's something i'm ever grateful for!
I was approached on reviewing this book as well, and I was a bit hesitant. I hit up Google, and was pleasantly surprised when your blog came up! After reading YOUR review, I may just do this, after asking Sir.
ReplyDeleteLea, it's a good read but as with any book a time sink. i think you'll enjoy it if you're forgiving enough of his attitude straight away! =)
ReplyDeleteHe comes off pretty rough at first hehe.
Have fun!