i think in the extremely short time i've been reading posts over at Fetlife i have already figured out why i haven't been active there before. It's a wonderful site, don't get me wrong but i'm not sure if it's right for me. i've just already come across several examples of why i don't think it might be right for me.
i'm not really all that comfortable giving or getting advice in a public forum and in the end those people are going to do exactly what they planned on doing before they ever posed the question. They were just posting the question in the hope that someone might validate them and when they aren't validated, that's when everything goes haywire. So here is something i just witnessed and didn't/can't comment on because i do not feel that i'm in any position to do so. i'm not a BDSM expert or any type of authority. i'll be vague i'm not going to steal any topic but here is what i'll say; someone said *I love the shock value of this life, I love to see the look on their face* (that's not verbatim).
i brought this here because it's a good topic for me to write about and i just don't feel right about condemning someone for how they live this life, i don't know them nor do i know why they've gone into this life. If i were to write about this anywhere other than on my blog i can't personalize it but i have to say that if i were in this lifestyle for the shock value that i think i am in it for all the wrong reasons. This lifestyle isn't about shock value or the element of surprise. It's not about getting a reaction from someone when i tell them what i'm about or why i live and love the way i do. Living this life is about happiness and finding love and fulfillment in a manner in which satisfies me.
Now i will say something that will seem incredibly unfair but those people who are going for the shock value only and trying to merely impress, those people are making a mockery of this lifestyle that the realists hold dear. Those of us who live this life and need this life to go on from day to day, we need this life to remain real and true. There may be some things that i do every single day that are truly breathtaking and unbelievable that i simply don't write about. The fact that i don't write about them doesn't mean they don't happen it only means that i might not share them here. my life with Master is fairly strict and startling to some but to us it's the life that we hold most precious. Please don't diminish the true meaning BDSM for a quick fix.
Peace to you and yours,
MD's treasure
This is a slave's daily account of a 24/7 BDSM relationship. If you are easily offended by sexual or kinky topics, this journal is NOT for you, please refrain from reading. Should you decide to proceed, my hope is that you thoroughly enjoy yourself and feel free to leave comments.
Biz Page
On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
Banners here also!
Saturday, January 02, 2010
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