Kaya asked this question on her journal and because i said i was stumped for writing material i'm just going to answer her here instead of comment on her journal. She asks "What are your thoughts on topping from the bottom?".
i haven't been very involved in the online BDSM community for various reasons basically i'm talking about discussion boards. i think this is where people get the most exposure but there is one main reason i don't visit discussion boards is because i don't like the confrontation or debate. i enjoy hearing an opinion albeit a peacefully placed one such as in a journal or article one that isn't easily debated.
Topping from the bottom is just as hot a topic as safe words. It's the never ending question that will be debated by BDSM'ers all over till the end of time. So i'll go ahead and give one more opinion of topping from the bottom. There is no right or wrong, there never will be, period. People can debate it and continue debating it and writing books about it and researching it until their fingers fall off but in the end the only thing that matter is what works for the couple.
There is one person who has the right to tell me if i am topping from the bottom and to tell me to shut up and to put me back in my place and that's the One that owns me. If anyone thinks that it's any other way or it should be any other way, then i think they haven't lived the lifestyle. Day in and day out through ripped stockings, burnt suppers, 10 tons of rock, cat puke and Florida vacations that we never want to end, He is the only One who can tell me if i am in the wrong by the way i am speaking to Him, trying to get what i want by trying to top Him.
i'm not speaking poorly of anyone who is investigating the lifestyle or researching BDSM but what i am saying is that there are some things that i believe are absolutely impossible to explain unless you've lived it. Could a woman who has given childbirth really ever explain it? i'm sure it's something that has to be experienced, there are just some things we have to live through, raising children, being drunk, true remorse or true love. There are some things that you must live.
The only way i'll ever know the real meaning of topping from the bottom is when He tells me i am, until then it is moot. He makes the rules.
MD's treasure
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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave
We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.
About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!
Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at precioustreasure_md@yahoo.com. We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.
About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.
My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.
Banners here also!
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