tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8880162.post4416173676962546748..comments2024-01-08T09:26:27.786-06:00Comments on Master Dream's precious treasure: PhobiasMaster Dream's precious treasurehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17459695398110281594noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8880162.post-60969734473158067202011-02-03T02:06:23.131-06:002011-02-03T02:06:23.131-06:00Hmm...maybe it's different for me because I...Hmm...maybe it's different for me because I'm not a submissive. I'm not a slave. I kind of dabble on both sides as the mood suits me.<br /><br />The nature of my relationships, when I'm more on the submissive side (maybe more of a bottom than a submissive), it's a lot about what I enjoy. It's in part a trust issue. It's in part because I really just don't enjoy pain. Still, it's an entirely different situation.<br /><br />However, on the grand scheme of phobias, I have to say, that's a one of the best ways I can think of to get over a fear. In a situation where there's trust it can be a very scary, but intense way to overcome those fears. Having no option but just "get over it" is very empowering! It can be incredibly freeing to be able to move beyond your fears. I wish more people could find themselves in a position of such great trust to overcome what they fear.Lilithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04907744420061330516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8880162.post-54462124217965530792011-01-29T07:59:04.104-06:002011-01-29T07:59:04.104-06:00As on of the slaves you mention that has some &quo...As on of the slaves you mention that has some "wiggle" room, this post made me think. One of my biggest fears always...is topping from the bottom...or appearing to top from the bottom. So with Goddess I've mostly kept my phobias and fears to myself. Luckily her interests and phobias are similiar to mine and there aren't too many "no-no's" of mine that I have to fret...there are a few I often think about though...Hawkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06003798904615367734noreply@blogger.com