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On Being A "Professional" Master/slave

We've never, ever wanted to be mistaken for any of the countless people who claim to be a Master or slave when in reality, they just pretend for money. There's potentially a fine line in other folks' perception, and I've gone to considerable effort to never cross that line. My treasure writes here because she enjoys it, she loves to get and reply to comments and she also does it because I require it. In the beginning, it was a blog, nothing more, nothing less. In the last few years, it has become not only a blog, but also a hub for all of our online activity. Some of that activity is done simply for fun, some of it is to feed some sort of narcissistic need for kudos that I still deny having, and some of it is done to try to supplement our income by sharing our real life with others who might be willing to toss a few bucks our way for a small window into our normal activities. Normal for us but mere fantasies to them, things that they can't get at home or simply things that get their blood flowing south. Like most people, we started out never showing our faces, never being specific about where we live, blah blah blah. One day, I decided that I was tired of acting like I was ashamed of Myself or My girl, just so someone I knew wouldn't find a photo that would make them all butt hurt because of their own insecurities and closed-mindedness. In a very short time, we had started making videos and posting non-anonymous pictures all over the place. Eventually, My girl started doing live cam sessions for cash and it's become a multifaceted "business". That's why we're making this page. I didn't want it on the front page of the blog because this is still her blog, and always will be, but we wanted to add a page for some of the money-making things that we do.

About two years ago, we decided to test the waters with Kindle publishing. For a nominal fee of 99 cents a month, you can get this blog automatically delivered to your Kindle. Unfortunately, this makes it less likely for My girl to get the comments that she so loves, so if you decide to go the Kindle route, please come back here later to leave that comment you were thinking about!

Lately, we've had gentlemen ask if it was possible to buy My treasure's worn stockings. If worn stockings is what you seek, then we are happy to oblige. We've charged very reasonable amounts in the past, and that won't change. Pricing will depend entirely on quantity, color, availability, your location and any other variables or requests. We get her stockings from Europe, and we only order a few times a year, so we may have limited color options at any given time. If you're interested in My girl's worn stockings, or any other requests for that matter, please email her directly at We've done custom videos and would also be happy to do custom photosets. If it turns you on, and you think we can provide it, please don't hesitate to ask.

About 2 and a half years ago, we also decided to start making videos for sale. We've had a banner on the front page, but we've never really promoted it at all. Well, I'm not really going to promote it too much here either, but if you'd like to check out our clips, you can find them here. You can also find some of them here.

My treasure has also started working as a cam girl on ImLive. There's a banner on the front for this as well, but you can also click here or on the banner below to find her over there or schedule a meeting with her.

Banners here also!

Friday, March 02, 2012

Q & A

Q. I'm sure I've missed the answers somewhere before and maybe they aren't in the same posts but.... Have you and your Master been M/s since the day you started dating? Was it something you knew about each other before coming together? How long did it take for you to feel like His slave? Or have you always felt that way? ..... I ask because i am still having a hard time feeling good enough, and although i know different people, situations and all of that are never going to have the same experience... I don't want to think there is no end to what i am feeling.

A. i put an ad in and we met through there. So to answer your question, yes we've been in the lifestyle the entire time we've been together.

Of course i can't tell you how to feel but i can tell you how it went when i first came here. Things weren't perfect and there was definitely an adjustment period. We moved in together one month after meeting on line so all we knew about each other was that we wanted similar things out of the lifestyle and He knew that i wanted to be molded into His perfect slave someday.

Believe me, i was no where near what He wanted when i came here. It just took lots of work and patience on both parts and i had to remember that we were in this for the long haul. That was really key, remembering that this was going to be a process of Master turning me into what He wanted, me remaining pliable and remembering that there was no rush to the finish line. We weren't in any hurry and we were moving at Master's pace, not mine, one day at a time and Master was driving.

i think it's important to remember who chose whom and even if you didn't start out in this dynamic, it's important to think about how your relationship developed into what it is today. Your owner chose you or chose to take your relationship a step further. i believe that feeling as though i'm not worthy of Him is one thing, i should continuously feel as though i have work to do. i'll never be done pleasing Him or working to be the slave that He wants me to be. Every day presents with new challenges and never a day goes by where i don't think about what a privileged it is to serve Master. i think that's what keeps us working harder at pleasing our Owners. As long as we don't dwell on it and have a good old fashioned pity party, it's a good thing and keeps us humble. When it leads to martyrdom, then it's gone too far, there is a thin line.

my Owner hand picked me out of everyone else in this world. He hand picked me to serve Him. i'm not the best, i'm not the smartest or the most beautiful but i promised to be His. He takes care of me and i take care of Him. If there is one thing that i know i was meant to do, it' serve Him and because of His faith in me, i know i'm good enough to do just that. i am my Owners most precious possession and i have no right to second guess Him. Trust Him that He chose wisely and know that you are good enough!

/hugs and thank you for the question.


  1. Thank you for answering my question so beautifully as always :) This i think is my favorite part, "As long as we don't dwell on it and have a good old fashioned pity party, it's a good thing and keeps us humble. When it leads to martyrdom, then it's gone too far, there is a thin line."
    You are right
    I will keep doing my best, remembering what/who i am doing this for and not be the martyr as well. Good post thank you.

  2. i'm really glad you were pleased!

    You are very welcome! =)